Am I wrong to be upset?? (long..=/..)

mommy_rel

Ok so after not seeing my dad for 13years we finally get back in contact..we attempt to mend our relationship but he always wants me to drive to see him..mind u thts an hr away and im 36+5wks still working 30+hr a wk jus to make my car and phone payments. I have a whole, a half, and two step sisters, those two were preggo also. one due aug 23, the other due sept 8, then me at sept 26. Aug 23rds water broke and she had her on aug10 at 1158pm....no one told me..facebook did..not too upset cuz it was late and an hr drive.. Then today on facebook im seeing congrats are in order to sept 8th she had her son....and im not notified..n I know for a fact my dad came all the way down here to see the baby..I LIVE RIGHT NEXT TO THE FREAKING HOSPITAL!!!! N she had him at least 5hrs ago. I jus saw her yday..she came n2 my work but didnt say nethin....i am so mad/upset/hurt..i feel like I shouldnt tell anybody when I have my daughter....i even txtd dad and his wife..no reply....
Opinions??

BentleysMommy

I would be really upset and hurt what jerks!

Mamato2boys

Wow what Assholes! I would probably feel the same way about telling them when your daughter arrives but then again i wouldnt wanna stoop to their level.....but i would to get my point across [-(

mommy_rel

@BentleysMommy thanks I jus wasnt sure if it was jus my hormones getting to me again or wat cuz ive been rly upset the last few days n idk y. But I spent alot of money on both of the girls n its money I dont have!! I guess I get slapped in the face for being nice. I went to both of their bbyshwrs n neither came to mine..='[

mommy_rel

@Mamato2boys thanks and ya thts wat I was thinkin..but I also thought about tellin them..tht or jus posting on fb since thts how I found out..n nt signing the papers for them to get in the hosp cuz im having her at wpafb..idk..

Mamato2boys

[-X [-( Wait they didnt go to your shower? Do u even have a relationship with them or like y are they being like that?!?! Is there favoritism bc it sounds like it and i would be VERY upset if i were you i would be =(( heart broken and im not preggo lol so it aint hormones but that is really messed up.....have they even provided resons for not being there? calling? Ugh i hate that people can act like this and think its ok!!! NOT.....hmm >-)

BentleysMommy

@mommy_rel that happened to me with 2 girls. I got them gifs for their showers then when it came time for mine, nothing. And they both have jobs and I don't. People are just so rude and inconsiderate these days [-(

mommy_rel

@Mamato2boys no reasons..fav I think yes..but still..n jus today my dad sent me a fwd txt "hug" thing..but could he tell me about baby?? No..ughh all I wanna do is cry..i cnt wait till my baby is here....
@BentleysMommy exactly!! N aug 23, I could understand her not being there..hr away n no job or car. But dad n his wife n my lil sis..i gave them an invite n a coup wks later he txts me n says "hey how about movie and ice cream fri nite!" I said umm thats when my baby shower is..i gave u guys an invite..are you comming?? N hes like "ohh we cant sry..how about sunday??" Wtf really?!?!
I think im done trying to make this "relationship" work..

BeauTiifuLLmOmA2bee

I kno hw yhue feel ii threw a bbyshwer where I dnt live for ma so calld friends and non of em showed up nt 1

mommy_rel

@BeauTiifuLLmOmA2bee yea..pretty much really hurts..

BeauTiifuLLmOmA2bee

Ask mee will they see ma bby HELL NO

bbylucasMomma

I know how you feel about the baby shower non of my family came but a distant aunt and her daughter and an old "friend " from school my dad had said over and over he would be there him amd his gf were suppose to be my grandma and brothers ride but they ditched out it really broke my heart