Ok ladies I need help..

mommy_rel

Ok I left my hubby back n apr for lying amd being on sex sites..i think I mite have overreacted a lil n drove 20hrs to gwt hm when I was 17wks preggo, I am now 37+2 n hubby said sumthin bout commin to get me n our daughter..wat are your thoughts?? I havnt seen/talked to him n almost 5 months..i miss him..i miss my adulthood and my independence..i hate having already lived on my own n moves back in with mommy..esp w a baby..

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Lindsey2Bou

I would definately talk to him, but what took him so long to want to come and see/get you? Unless he did try the whole time inbetween to get you back. I can completely understand you wanting to be with your husband I applaud you for being so strong to leave him for hurting you, but i would definately sit down and have a talk with him before just going back momma. Make sure everything you want to say is said and make sure you get answers from him if you have questions!! Good luck and I hope everything works out the way you want it to

Jess510

Don't let porn ruin your family most men watch it.

mommy_rel

@2BeForgotten @Lindsey2Bou @Jess510 thanks for the feedback ladies..n weve talked off n on b4..im jus scared this is another one of those "oh I want u back" a coup days/wks go by "na I dont want u, stay there. Mind you its a 20hr drive..but I miss my old life..i hate living in my moms basement..n idk how id break it to her..shed b so upset w me..ugh. Im so lost right now..='[

mgrose

Its obvious the porn thing is a big deal to u, it is to me also! Its about respect, and the same goes with the lying! If he didn't respect your wishes, or respect u enough to be honest with you, there's def a problem there! I understand u want out of your moms but if u go it sounds like she may not let u come back, and that's scary! Maybe wait until u have your baby and see how he acts! Im not trying to discourage u, but id hate to see u make the wrong choice and ruin what u have with ur mom! Good luck hun

emy

Go work it out.

blueberrysmom

You didn't overreact but it's still okay to try to work it out. Good luck!

Mrs4c

You can definitely try to work it out! Porn can be given up. Don't think that it can't because he's a man! Praying for you guys!

mommy_rel

Hey ladies sorry I havnt been on..things are kinda hectic..neway..he said hes still undecided n I havnt talked to him since..n now im rly nervous cuz my midwife thinks my bby is commin this wkend..ughh I wish hed grow a brain..
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mgrose

Just focus on your baby hun, that is what's most important right now and it sounds like ur mom will b there to support u!

mommy_rel

@mgrose thanks..i jus wish men werent so dumb..lol