Should I update him?
So me and my bd aren't on speaking terms and I really just want nothing to do with him. So I was going to just not talk to him at all unless he asks a question about our daughter or something. But yesterday I got an ultrasound and idk if I should send him a picture of it or just keep up with the not talking to him. But here is a backround of why we aren't talking.
So we were together for a month then broke up. I found out I was pregnant 2 months later so I called him and told him. We started talking again and then I found out he was talking to this 16 year old sending her pictures of his junk (him being 23 btw) so we stopped talking for 5 months or so. He wanted to get back together but I was to hurt. So not that long ago we started talking again (dumb mistake on my part lol) and we were going to work things out. We were fine for a little bit then he stops talking to me as much and says he wants nothing to do with me. And the next week he has a girlfriend. So I loaned him money and wanted it back now that he was being an asshole he made me wait a month cause he lives off back child support he's getting from his dad and when I asked about it he got mad at me for wanting my money. And told me he's not gonna give me it. So I go off on him about him not doing anything for our daughter and now he's talking away money from me that would go for buying her diapers or clothes cause he has not bought anything for her. He still hasn't gotten a job to help support her, he says he's looking but I don't think he is cause I don't think he wants one he hasn't had a job in over 4 years so he's used to it. He is selfish and hasn't given up anything in his life for his daughter and it pisses me off that he is taking all his money and spending it on his girlfriend and partying.
So anyway I don't plan on cutting him out of her life. If he wants to be in her life he will have to make the effort to see her and find out things. But am I being selfish by not sending him a picture of her? What would you do?
So we were together for a month then broke up. I found out I was pregnant 2 months later so I called him and told him. We started talking again and then I found out he was talking to this 16 year old sending her pictures of his junk (him being 23 btw) so we stopped talking for 5 months or so. He wanted to get back together but I was to hurt. So not that long ago we started talking again (dumb mistake on my part lol) and we were going to work things out. We were fine for a little bit then he stops talking to me as much and says he wants nothing to do with me. And the next week he has a girlfriend. So I loaned him money and wanted it back now that he was being an asshole he made me wait a month cause he lives off back child support he's getting from his dad and when I asked about it he got mad at me for wanting my money. And told me he's not gonna give me it. So I go off on him about him not doing anything for our daughter and now he's talking away money from me that would go for buying her diapers or clothes cause he has not bought anything for her. He still hasn't gotten a job to help support her, he says he's looking but I don't think he is cause I don't think he wants one he hasn't had a job in over 4 years so he's used to it. He is selfish and hasn't given up anything in his life for his daughter and it pisses me off that he is taking all his money and spending it on his girlfriend and partying.
So anyway I don't plan on cutting him out of her life. If he wants to be in her life he will have to make the effort to see her and find out things. But am I being selfish by not sending him a picture of her? What would you do?
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@everyone thanks for your support. I was just about to give in and send it but I thought I should ask the preglies first.:)
How can he not care about me but care about our child I don't get it