ANybody ever felt this way???
so ive always felt like my mom picked favorites with her kids. and her favorite has always been my sister. she say
s she tried to decipline us the same way but that never worked for example last year she diconnected my phone for 2 weeks cause i was trying to work things out with my ex when we were havinga fight. well my sister KEYED a car got her phone taken away for a week wasnt allowed to hang out with the girl she did it with and wasnt allowed to go to home coming... My aunt gave me a queen size bed when we moved in to her house. It was 5 yrs old and the mattress has pee stains from her husband who wet the bed when he got drunk well my sister just got a brand new queen size mattress but idc aboutthat the part i care about is that its a memory foam mattress.. and we were really close this summer when my sister was in new york visiting family for 5 weeks but now that shes home im the one that gets the boot. I creat extra bills and im the needy one. yet she wants to get everything for my baby. when me and my mom get to talking about baby stuff my sister gets all pissy and says im so tired of the stupid baby. MY BABY ISNT DUE FOR 23 MORE WEEKS!!!!!! what is she going to do when the baby gets here. Ive tryed to make her a part of the baby and everything i invite her to drs appointments ive asked her if she wants to be in the delivery room and its all a no. and when she does go shopping she thinks she knows everything just because when she was in ny the family member she stayed with has 2 well now 3 under 3 but she thinks she knows what I "need" for my baby. the thinks im stupid for getting a breast pump in case im not able to breast feed. Her words were why waist money when you dont even know if your going to be able to breast feed.... i guess im just complaining but it really hurts me when my mom picks favorites. when my sister isnt around were good but as soon as my sister comes in the room or some thing i get kicked to the curb. like the other day we were going shopping and she turns around to my mom and says when can the 3 of us go some where together meaning her my mom and my youngest sister. im 18 and 15. I guess its cause im depressed that i notice this more but i am still really uspet.... thanks for everybody who reads this...
s she tried to decipline us the same way but that never worked for example last year she diconnected my phone for 2 weeks cause i was trying to work things out with my ex when we were havinga fight. well my sister KEYED a car got her phone taken away for a week wasnt allowed to hang out with the girl she did it with and wasnt allowed to go to home coming... My aunt gave me a queen size bed when we moved in to her house. It was 5 yrs old and the mattress has pee stains from her husband who wet the bed when he got drunk well my sister just got a brand new queen size mattress but idc aboutthat the part i care about is that its a memory foam mattress.. and we were really close this summer when my sister was in new york visiting family for 5 weeks but now that shes home im the one that gets the boot. I creat extra bills and im the needy one. yet she wants to get everything for my baby. when me and my mom get to talking about baby stuff my sister gets all pissy and says im so tired of the stupid baby. MY BABY ISNT DUE FOR 23 MORE WEEKS!!!!!! what is she going to do when the baby gets here. Ive tryed to make her a part of the baby and everything i invite her to drs appointments ive asked her if she wants to be in the delivery room and its all a no. and when she does go shopping she thinks she knows everything just because when she was in ny the family member she stayed with has 2 well now 3 under 3 but she thinks she knows what I "need" for my baby. the thinks im stupid for getting a breast pump in case im not able to breast feed. Her words were why waist money when you dont even know if your going to be able to breast feed.... i guess im just complaining but it really hurts me when my mom picks favorites. when my sister isnt around were good but as soon as my sister comes in the room or some thing i get kicked to the curb. like the other day we were going shopping and she turns around to my mom and says when can the 3 of us go some where together meaning her my mom and my youngest sister. im 18 and 15. I guess its cause im depressed that i notice this more but i am still really uspet.... thanks for everybody who reads this...
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Since you've offered her to be a part of your pregnancy and she's turning you down... Maybe you should try some reverse sociology and act like you don't want her to be apart of it. Not saying to be rude to her but just stop offering her things, stop talking about it, don't ask her opinion(even small things like colors). Just plain out make it seem like you're not interested in her being apart of the pregnancy anymore. Maybe she will get jealous and start feeling differently about the situation. Or, if you haven't already, have you told her about how the way she's been acting is making you feel? I know she's 15 and immature but sometimes it helps. And sometimes you just have to take a stand, take initiative and just plain out be a b!tch.
I've learned throughout the years, being apart of a 6 child family (2 older sisters & 3 younger brothers) that sometimes it's just best to be independent. Show that you can do things on your own - whether it be cleaning without someone asking you to do it or eating alone. I even kept some distance with the people I was living with till they realized that I needed to be treated better. The silent treatment has worked for me many times! Lol.