DRAMA (long)

cmarie324xo

When I got pregnant in March I LOVED coming on Pregly but its not the same anymore. Its a mixture of the fact that I have had 2 m/c's since then and that it seems like every time I come on here there is drama. Not everyone may notice it but I do. I just don't want to end up coming on here one day with a question and someone jumping down my throat or have me explain something I am going through and people trying to say that I'm fake! How can ANYONE on here determine who is fake and who isn't?! I find it disgusting that "grown" women will start drama like they do on here. At times I feel like I am back in high school. I feel like if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all. I have gone through some HORRIBLE things in the past 6 months and I've come on here to ask questions to women who have gone through the same thing that I am going through and i get a few responses from pretty much the same few people and I thank you very much for that! I try to comment on any thread that I have any knowledge on. I'm not saying I'm a doctor and know everything but if you ask for advice and I think I may know something then I will comment. If someone comes on here scared of something that is/could be going on with their pregnancy and people start throwing out that it is MUD or fake, that is extremely messed up! You would NOT want someone accusing you of being fake. This is a forum for people to come and talk/ask questions about their pregnancies NOT to get bashed. I just feel like this forum has changed. If you don't like anything I have written here then close out of the thread and move on! I'm not expecting anyone to comment on this but I'm just putting it out there how I feel! The only reason I still come on here is to see how the women are doing that are due around when I would have been due such as @USMCwifemommy101107 . I would have been due a day before you and I know you are going through a very difficult time but I love seeing your comments about you and Cadence! Anyways I'm done ranting! Have a good day everyone.

tinka1326

When you get so many hormonal women all together drama is bound to happen unfortunately. Personally I try to just comment helpfully where I can and leave the rest alone

blueberrysmom

You make some good points. I look at Pregly like everything else and take the good with the bad. I find that, while there is sometimes drama, Pregly has a lot to offer. I've gotten a lot of support here, have had questions answered, and have made some truly wonderful friends. All in all, far more good than bad. I'm a glass is half full kind of girl, though.

I'm very sorry for your losses, hun. Take good care.

:ar!

litababy

Drama unfortunately is inevitable no matter where you go. Especially amongst a bunch of women and definitely when you throw some added hormones in. However, does that make pregly a bad app because of it?? I would say definitely not! I have been on this app for quite sometime and I've never seen a more helpful and supportive mix of women. Every single question may not get answered right away but I guarantee if you go through the threads a little more you will find your question already answered. This is a great app in my opinion despite the occasional drama that can easily be ignored if you choose to do so. Its an open forum, different opinions, beliefs, and feelings should be expected. Those differences are what makes pregly a better pregnancy app

momof5

I would have to agree with you on this. Its so full of high school drama at times.