when do i get a night of fun huh!!!! sahm! of 2 almost3

lae3

so ive been super annoyed with my husband right now.. ok here goes!! so he works tue-sat! ok good.. he leaves at 5am gets home around 4:30pm or later, Mon, he has a routine were he goes to clean his work van, wich takes 2hrs, haircut and whatever other crap he says he has to do, tue nights i dont see him till 8-9pm now cuz he does softball... im 34wks preg. and have a 9yr old..my lil helper.. and my 17month old terror of a sweet heart.. I love them both!! my hearts! ok my schedual, get son off to school, clean and care for child, i know seems like not a big deal.. and its not usually im just getting huge and its hard to get around and if you have a toddler you know what its like and being preg just makes it hard.. he gets into everything..lol. he has his nap.. then son gets home.. do hw with him .. snacks and then at 4:15 i take him to muay tia.. mon-fri.. with my toddler.. chacing him througout the hot!! gym.. hubby gets home conveniently min before i take him to the gym.. so then he gets two hrs to himself while im gone.. yay.. im jellouse!! ok.. fine .. and then i get home around 6:30 and i cook dinner! and the whole time my toddler is running in the kitchen.. in danger at times.. and i have to keep taking him to the lr.. ok my vent is get the hell off the phone, computer, or couch and help me out! for god sakes .. its annoying and the bigger i get the more annoyed i get! oh yeah .. he hasnt bought 1thing for the new baby yet!!!! so im stressing the heck out!! and im trying to get everything ready by myself.. he spends all the money on god knows what.. i just keep thinking omg.. is this how its going to be when our new arives in a matter of wks!!! oh yah hes going out of state shortly after the babies born for a wk.. sorry this is so long .. but not getting any help even when hes here is getting to me.. i just want to be a good mom and to do that i need a min sometimes to collect myself.. you know.. so im not alway anxiouse or annoyed.. my kids dont deserve me in the condition im in right now .. and i just keep thinking .. im basically a single mom.. whos supported finacialy .. oh ya i do all extra things for my kids playdates parks, fighting comp.. you know its just all wearing on me is all .. i know i should be thankfull

adri805

Tell him.he needs to cough over some dough

heyitsme

Imo hubby should be taking the kids to the gym! So he just got home from work? Too bad, spend some time with ur kids! Give u some time to urself!

emy

I would tell him that u need some more time during the day especially with the new baby and all an explain to him that it would b a big help if he took the kids to the gym a few nights a week. Also make a list of things needed for the baby an show him, ask him when he was thinking that u two could go shopping for the baby.

lae3

@adri805 oh i do all the time.. lol.. i guess not enough.. @heyitsme i know right.. thats what i think.. but he conveniently always gets home right after i leave to take my oldest.. otherwise it wouldnt be a prob.. if i could leave the toddler with him.. i like to work out.. so if he took the lil one i could workout.. @emy i thought about the list thing.. but i think if i did that hed get all annoyed or frustrated and overwhelmed.. the thing is i have alot of stuff left over from my toddler.. but he said he wanted to get all new stuff.. but im glad i didnt get rid of it like i thought.. cause it looks like will be using some of it.. thanks ladies for listening to my vent and giving your ideas i appreciate it ...