Getting too stressed :( about to cancel my shower (long)
So my shower is next Sunday and my mom is throwing it for me, but she's making it SO stressful 
our whole house needs to be clean by then which I didn't think was going to be an issue. Yesterday bd and one of our friends came over and cleaned out what's going to be the nursery and moved a bunch of furniture for my mom, when I told her they were exhausted and were going to come back later in the week to help me with the rest of the basement she freaked out! She started yelling at me about how I promised it would get done yesterday (I really said before Tuesday, SHE said yesterday) and they barely did anything (the room they cleaned out for the nursery probably hasn't been cleaned since my brother was living in it when he was 9 now he's 19) why would you throw a fit about them helping? They both spent their day off cleaning my basement and she's so ungrateful! She started saying she wasn't going to throw my shower anymore and I'm lazy and I'm not going to get it done before Sunday and she HAS to clean her whole house so I can have the shower that I apparantly wanted so bad. I didn't even want a shower! Bd's mom was going to have one for me, but when I told my mom she INSISTED on throwing me one here! She always does things like this she'll offer to do something for me and then bitch and complain that she has to do it and tries to make me feel bad! If you don't want to do something then DON'T OFFER! Now I'm super stressed I didn't get any sleep last night, I was going to clean today before I had to go to work, but now I'm too tired and I feel really sick I don't even want to have this shower anymore it's all been too much stress for something I didn't even want to begin with.
our whole house needs to be clean by then which I didn't think was going to be an issue. Yesterday bd and one of our friends came over and cleaned out what's going to be the nursery and moved a bunch of furniture for my mom, when I told her they were exhausted and were going to come back later in the week to help me with the rest of the basement she freaked out! She started yelling at me about how I promised it would get done yesterday (I really said before Tuesday, SHE said yesterday) and they barely did anything (the room they cleaned out for the nursery probably hasn't been cleaned since my brother was living in it when he was 9 now he's 19) why would you throw a fit about them helping? They both spent their day off cleaning my basement and she's so ungrateful! She started saying she wasn't going to throw my shower anymore and I'm lazy and I'm not going to get it done before Sunday and she HAS to clean her whole house so I can have the shower that I apparantly wanted so bad. I didn't even want a shower! Bd's mom was going to have one for me, but when I told my mom she INSISTED on throwing me one here! She always does things like this she'll offer to do something for me and then bitch and complain that she has to do it and tries to make me feel bad! If you don't want to do something then DON'T OFFER! Now I'm super stressed I didn't get any sleep last night, I was going to clean today before I had to go to work, but now I'm too tired and I feel really sick I don't even want to have this shower anymore it's all been too much stress for something I didn't even want to begin with.
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Just relax. It'll be great when it starts! Let me know how it goes!!