Wow.. Mc #3. :/

rjr33

Went to my dr appt and they couldnt find a heartbeat. Im 9 weeks. Dr Said it looked like the fetus had split and there might have been twins. She sent me to have a full ultrasound at the hospital.. My bf watched the monitor and said the lady marked fetus A and fetus B.. And that my dr would call me back.. No call yet. Im not bleeding or cramping. So idk if baby or babies have no heartbeat idk what to do. A dnc surgery or take medicine. Ive done both in past mc. Idk what to do.

mrsrocketfield1221

Don't give up hope yet... >:D< I'll be praying everything is ok, please let us know. Don't jump the gun and always get a second opinion!!

Mom2McKenna

Maybe their heartbeats are too quiet to hear? Hope all goes well! Good Luck hun I hope it all turns out for you!

kayleigh27

Oh wow. Im so sorry hun. Don't give up though

Mallory27

Prayers for you! Don't give up hope!

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brodysmamma

I'm sorry and best wishes Hun.

rjr33

they confirmed that there was no heartbeat.. i just dont get why im not actively miscarrying.. i have to go in in the morning for a DNC. im so heartbroken.. i shouldnt have let myself get excited. I feel like im never going to have a baby.

littlenat86

So so sorry hun x

usafwife_21

I'm sorry Have you seen a specialist?

Emmatamomma

im so sorry for you sweetie. I had the same exact thing happen to me in 2009 while pregnant with twins at 9 weeks. it's called a missed spontaneous abortion..its when the featuses don't survive yet your body doesn't react. I also had to have a dnc. I pray everything is OK for you and your family sorry for your loss Hun. ill be praying for u. However I felt the same devastation you are now...but today I'm 37 weeks pregnant with my 2nd daughter.

Leggs2011

I didn't get to hear my babes heartbeat until week 10.3. I had light bleeding at 6.3 weeks and my doc had me go in each week for a check up. It was a hard month.
Id wait another week. Just in case.

RTMommy

@rjr33 I'm so sorry for your losses I'm in the process of MC now too (#2), and the pills didn't work this time. I have to call my doc in the AM tmw to schedule a D&C. We'll get our babies eventually. I have to believe that. My doc will be doing labs to test for anything that could be causing my MCs. Maybe yours can do the same? I'm here if you want to talk. Hugs.

momofSOONtobe7

@rjr33 im so sorry for your loss. I had a mc in march and conceived in june again. I have been so scared I am going to miscarry again. I went in last Tuesday for an us and we didn't hear or see the gb but the baby was moving. I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing I can say will make it better for you. A loss is a loss no matter what. Grieve!!! Don't let anyone tell you oh it was just a baby that you didn't even have yet etc. Its hard regardless. I still am not excited yet for this one and ot scares me bc I can't get excited bc of my previous mc. I hope the doc is actually going to do tests to see what's up!!! They wouldn't do it for me bc it was my first mc. All they told me was it was a chromosome defect. I didn't believe them. I knew it was from all the stress. It will happen hun! When its meant to be its meant to be!!!! Again I can't express my deepest sympathy to you! I did mc a twin before bit they didnt consider it a mc bc it was a vanishing twin.... wish you luck hun! @RTMommy sorry for your loss too! Good attitude!

rjr33

Thank you all for your kind words. This one has hurt the worst cuz I was so excited. I go in tomorrow for my dnc. I hope it goes good. Just so disappointed. I hope some day it happens for me.

MissQ_1stTimeMommy2B

Are they sure? My dr. told me the heartbeat can't be heard till after 10wks!

Lourdes26us1

I am so sorry hun!! My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

HoneyBee

I agree with ^, we went to our first appt at 8w 3d and couldnt see a heartbeat, but went back 2 weeks later and there it was. I'm not trying to get your hopes up, but give you some positive thoughts, i've had 3 miscarriages and I know how bad it hurts. Best of luck to you.

MissPrego

@rjr if I were you I would wait. I had a bleeding at 7 weeks and they told me that there was no heart beat also they said I was gonna have a miscarriage. Well I was in Texas visiting family so I had to wait 2to weeks til I came back to California where I live. By that time I was almost 10went weeks but I have Tricare and they don't start prenatal care until 12 weeks so I had to wait til then to get checked out by the time I went in my baby had a heartbeat!! And although the bleeding lasted for about a week my baby is now here with me. I have a healthy baby boy he was born Aug. 26. Maybe you should wait a little longer it doesn't hurt to try. I'll be praying for you and those precious babies =]

tinka1326

Prayers... I had a mc in December last year and the following month got pregnant again. I wouldnt advise trying again that fast because you dont really have enough time to process everything. But I really do hope your okay and you get your miracle baby soon. Grief is a hard thing to deal with so make sure you do whatever you need to get through this, dont let anyone tell you differently xox

rjr33

They confirmed before my surgery that it was twins. it just hurts more. I'm really sad. This is my 3rd mc. Its not fair. I hate that they dont have a reason why im miscarrying.

kayleigh27

are they planning to do labwork the following time you get pregnant? Maybe you're not producing enough of a certain hormone...idk but im truly sorry about this. Don't give up hope or faith

vtmamajuju

I had 3 MC before I finally got pregnant with this one. I know how it feels! Hang in there momma! It'll happen soon!

rjr33

My dr wants to start doing more blood work. I hate that I dont know the reason why im miscarrying. Im so young im only 21. My dr sounds pretty positive that were gonna figure this out I just am really bummed out they had me on proestreni just thought it would work. I dont plan on rushing things cuz I want my body to heal. But when can I try again anyone know?

RTMommy

@rjr33 it depends on your dr honey. usually it's anywhere from 1-3 months, depending on how far you were, etc. my plan is just to give my body time, and hope it works it out when it's supposed to happen. blood work is a good thing. at least you'll have information and more direction about what is going on and what he needs to do to help you have a healthy pregnancy. i'm pulling for you.

rjr33

@RTMommy yeah my dr said were gonna wait 6 weeks and I can try again. Sorry to hear about your mc! I'm pretty heartbroken. I hope the lonely feeling goes away soon. I was getting use to being prego I guess. how far along were you? And how long are you waiting before you try again? None of my friends really know what I'm going through so its nice to talk to someone who feels the same!

RTMommy

@rjr33 The first time I MC in May, it took distracting myself with other projects to really heal the hole I felt after losing that pregnancy. It was a few months. The first time I found out it was going to be a MC, I was 10 weeks. This time I gave myself more time before I saw the doctor to make sure there would be plenty to see on ultrasound, but it was still bad news. We waited basically 6 weeks the first time to try again. This time I don't know how long I want to wait. I feel like I need answers why before I feel safe trying again. I'm actually terrified at this point. I literally just had my 2nd MC yesterday and it was a ton worse than the first one. Its made me nervous to get pregnant again. My friends didn't know about this second pregnancy either, so I'm glad we have a similar situation. I'm around if you want to talk more.