opinions? advice? previously divorced spouse?
so my boyfriend and i went to a finance class through our church last night and on the way home.. the marriage topic came up.
a little backgroud information -- about a year ago my boyfriend finalized a really nasty bitter divorce, he had sole custody of his children because she abused both him and his children (whipping with bungee cords) and because in the end, after $25k, he couldnt afford an atty -- she won sole custody and doesnt want to be reasonable with ANYTHING.
so nevertheless -- he is bitter at the idea of marriage at this point.
so he made it clear last night that he wants to marry me but wants everything in writing and notarized (a divorce agreement) before eloping. he wants the courts involved as little as possible because of his experience.
thoughts? theres obviously more to the conversation but id like to hear others opinions..
a little backgroud information -- about a year ago my boyfriend finalized a really nasty bitter divorce, he had sole custody of his children because she abused both him and his children (whipping with bungee cords) and because in the end, after $25k, he couldnt afford an atty -- she won sole custody and doesnt want to be reasonable with ANYTHING.
so nevertheless -- he is bitter at the idea of marriage at this point.
so he made it clear last night that he wants to marry me but wants everything in writing and notarized (a divorce agreement) before eloping. he wants the courts involved as little as possible because of his experience.
thoughts? theres obviously more to the conversation but id like to hear others opinions..
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