grandma problems

Gabriela

So I had my son on the 16th and I love him more than life itself and couldn't be happier except for the fact that my mother is breathing down my neck about every little thing that I do and she's completely taking him away from me she comes to "help" me when I dont need her help and she points out all the things im doing wrong and she takes him away from me saying ur with him all day I just got here I don't know what to do im suffocating and Im afraid im gonna snap of something doesn't change soon help me please I need some advice

momma_erica

Just tell ur mom thank u for the help but I want to raise my baby & care for my child. If that means doing some things wrong n her eyes then so b it. How else are u to learn unless u do it urself. Tell her grandparents r supposed to just enjoy the babies not patent them

PEsMommY

Tell her "thank for the advice and help, but I need to figure out things on my own, and get comfortable in my new role as a mother. You've done a great job raising me, now its my turn"
if that didn't get her to back off, be stern and consistant. Best wishes