I jus left my baby

JsMyOnlyLove

Wit my parents for the first time. They will b takin care of him while I go back to work. I want him to get used to me not bein around so I left him for a lil over an hr today. My dad said he was fussy an he looked like he cried the whole time. Now he is still a lil fussy. Is this normal? Will he get used to me not bein around?

PumpkinCupcake0307

Idk. I havent been able to leave.my baby with anyone but my fiance hes 5 months old.

Babymamma18

Im leaving my baby wit my in laws one night for about 4 hours. We going to a haunted house. Shes 6 weeks and im sooo scared to leave her. I have seperation issues.

Its good to practice now for both of u if u plan on going to work soon. I just applied for a job and it breaks my heart to have to leave my baby girl.

JsMyOnlyLove

@babymamma18 yea I go back next week an he's 6 weeks too. My dad said he did ok but he could tell he missed me but it was only for 1hr n a half. When I go back to work itll b at least 5 hrs at a time. I'm so nervous.

Beautiful_Altar

He'll get used to it. Maybe do it a few more times before you go back.

2lilblessings

aaww in 3-5 wks i gotta go back to work and i dont want to im gonna miss my lil bean i was used to taking her to work with me in my tummy im gonna be sad when the time comes

tinka1326

Its normal that he would be fussy, your all he knows and he doesnt know where you are or if your coming back so of course he would get upset. But the more time he spends with your family and gets used to the new routine the more comfortable he will feel and will start to realise you are going to come back. I would take him there as often as you can and leave the room regularly so he sees that you will leave then come back. Goodluck and just remember its a settling in process he will adjust

azmom

Better to start now than at an older age its much harder the older they get

JsMyOnlyLove

Thanks I really hope so. Sometimes I feel like a bad mom cuz idk wtf i'm doin

preggointx

My babY has spent the night with my mon he.was less fussy with her at home he.cries during the night