i need advice about my 7 year old please npr but i need help now!!!!

edited October 2011 in Parenting
My son is seven and about 10 months ago we found a rock he had taped a picture of an underwear model to asked him about it and he said he did it as a gift for me like insperation to lose weight well recently he called me while I was out shopping and he was crying he said his dog had humped him and I told him dogs don't know any better and to just stay away from her fir a while well two days ago he came to me and he told me the truth about it all he said that he had humped on his dog not the other way around and that the rock he had put up to himself and that he had seen a commercial or a show he can't remember with a jello fight and bee put jello on himself and he had put lotion on himself and that when we enter to my dads house he told my 5yo brother about "sex" which he thinks is just humping and showed him humping idk what to do or say he told me its all from tv and says no one has talked to him sexually and the only person who has touched his privates is his doctor with me there help ladies please I'm drounding here I've tried to talk to him I said its normal to have those thoughts and try experiments but that "sex" was for two adults after marriage and he said ok but is now asking if everything is norrmal like seeing underwear and bras on maniquins at the store

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  • He probably is telling you the truth. Television and music hecks media alone talks about sex 90% of the time!! Kids are curious especially boys. He's probably seen sex scenes on tv!!
  • Oh dear. I fear thoss days when my 2 boys start asking about that stuff. I am clueless about how to handle it. Lol. No one ever discussed sex or anything like that with me. So I dont even know how to address it. Im sorry I cant help. Hopefully someone can.
  • Oh hunny I'm not tryin to laugh at all while reading this but I have 5 boys. The oldest is 10. I was walking upstairs to their room one day and I overheard them talking about masterbation (yuck). I listened for a while then I proceeded up the stairs and asked what they were doing. They said just talkin and when I asked about what all they could say was oh just stuff. So I told them what I had heard and was trying to explain that things like that and sex are for when they are older and married. Its hard to explain to a little boy. They are so confused at this age and the hormones are starting to come into play now. I asked their dad to sit down with them and have the birds and bees convo with them. Is their a male present in his life that could or would explain things like that to him?? And believe me it only gets worse.
  • @mommyof3tobe I know we used to watch greys anatomy together he never clued in to the sex references he just liked hospital things and now I can't even let him watch that anymore and he loves the amazing race but all they do is zoom in on boobs and ass same with survivor its frustrating because he doesn't like Disney much anymore he says its too kiddy

    @angrl26 I know girl this is a part of being a mom that is freaking me out

    @momof5 well I guess when u get time to talk to ur 5th u will have it down packt lmao :)) yea my husband talked to him and told him its normal and hes ok but he only wants to talk to me about it and now today he called me from school and said he accidentally touched a girls butt the teacher said he appologised but the girl looked at him like wtf???? She didn't even know he had idk how to get him to stop worrying about it all the time
  • Omg girl I wouldnt let a two year old watch greys anatomy lol!! No offense though, thats my show too!!! I guess I got it from my mom though, I didn't watch tv hardly only children shows and maybe a couple family shows, and couldn't listen to secular music. But tv and music is like 10x worse now !!! Smh I'm pretty much same with my children as my mom was with me. Some may not agree with it , but I definatly think its best .
  • edited October 2011
    No offence taken Hun @mommyof3tobe I have dvr so I would ff or mute and make him turn for those parts but sometimes they sneek up on u
  • Girl I tell ya what. I am scared of walking in their room and finding them playing with themselves so I try and knock before I go in. Lol. They use to look at magazines and all the stuff in them now all they care about is looking at boobs. Lol. Its a boy thing and I know its natural. My husband tells my 3 boys (which are not his) that they don't need to talk about stuff like that and stuff like that is done in the privacy of their own bedrooms or the bathroom. Lmao. Great advice I'm waiting for our 2 younger boys to start asking questions. Lol.
  • That is gray advice I will tell my hubby to telll hum that thanks Hun @momof5. :)
  • Anytime. I figure boys are going to experiment and I would rather them experiment in their bedrooms or bathroom without us having to catch them doing it. Lol. Its so gross to think of our own children getting to that age. Lol.
  • Heck yea it is when he told me about the lotion. I was like wow tmi bud @momof5 lmao
  • Roflomao. Got that right. I don't want to think about it. Ahhhh. Lol. Let's talk about............cookies. haha.
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