Johnson&Johnson baby shampoo up my vag??
Now thinking about my labor and birthing experience there are a lot of things that seemed very wrong and like its not supposed to be done..
First of all the nurse that I had was a total bitch! The whole entire time she checked me for dialation with lube but the last dialation check she used baby shampoo instead of the tube of lube she had right next to her and I asked her and she said "there's many uses for baby shampoo" .. but any type of shampoo up my vag don't sound right specially when there's a baby going to be passing through very soon.
Another thing is she WOULDNT let my mom stay with me or any of my older family only my boyfriend and she was arguing with her for anything through every contraction I had which was torture! I made my mom stay anyways but she was being a total bitch. She didn't check me for dialation for hours and last she checked I was on 6-7 and I was saying I felt the baby coming so my mom asked if she could just look and I said yeah so my mom got out her flash light and looked under my blanket to see if she can see the head (she didn't touch me at all either, just looked) the nurse walks in and goes off on my mother that my mom can't look at me down there. She started a big argument with my mom again.. I'm sure she didn't want anyone else in there kuz she wanted to do what she wants with me without anyone speaking up for me kuz my bf is young and he wouldn't know if they were doing anything bad.
Then they poked me in 3 different places for my epidural but I don't think they gave me the correct dose because I felt everything ! And when it was in she told me that I'm not allowed to press the little button they gave me for more epidural to come out only she can press it........
Then when I blacked out during labor and told them that I did and I need help. They told me I was making it up. They didn't even give me an oxygen mask and I blacked out twice.
When she was putting the internal monitors up me I was crying in pain telling her to please stop, she was jamming it harder and wouldn't stop until I cussed her out and told her to get me more epidural or something else so I don't feel it.
Ugh I'm not ever going to that hospital again!
I honestly think its kuz I'm on Medicaid.
Idk why they would treat me this way there's more but I can't really remember .. this whole thing makes me soo mad thinking back and now I know why my grandmothers and mom and aunts were so mad and went off on the whole l&d staff when we left.
Thanks for listening. I'm not sue happy but I wish I could sue this hospital for what they put me through..
First of all the nurse that I had was a total bitch! The whole entire time she checked me for dialation with lube but the last dialation check she used baby shampoo instead of the tube of lube she had right next to her and I asked her and she said "there's many uses for baby shampoo" .. but any type of shampoo up my vag don't sound right specially when there's a baby going to be passing through very soon.
Another thing is she WOULDNT let my mom stay with me or any of my older family only my boyfriend and she was arguing with her for anything through every contraction I had which was torture! I made my mom stay anyways but she was being a total bitch. She didn't check me for dialation for hours and last she checked I was on 6-7 and I was saying I felt the baby coming so my mom asked if she could just look and I said yeah so my mom got out her flash light and looked under my blanket to see if she can see the head (she didn't touch me at all either, just looked) the nurse walks in and goes off on my mother that my mom can't look at me down there. She started a big argument with my mom again.. I'm sure she didn't want anyone else in there kuz she wanted to do what she wants with me without anyone speaking up for me kuz my bf is young and he wouldn't know if they were doing anything bad.
Then they poked me in 3 different places for my epidural but I don't think they gave me the correct dose because I felt everything ! And when it was in she told me that I'm not allowed to press the little button they gave me for more epidural to come out only she can press it........
Then when I blacked out during labor and told them that I did and I need help. They told me I was making it up. They didn't even give me an oxygen mask and I blacked out twice.
When she was putting the internal monitors up me I was crying in pain telling her to please stop, she was jamming it harder and wouldn't stop until I cussed her out and told her to get me more epidural or something else so I don't feel it.
Ugh I'm not ever going to that hospital again!
I honestly think its kuz I'm on Medicaid.
Idk why they would treat me this way there's more but I can't really remember .. this whole thing makes me soo mad thinking back and now I know why my grandmothers and mom and aunts were so mad and went off on the whole l&d staff when we left.
Thanks for listening. I'm not sue happy but I wish I could sue this hospital for what they put me through..
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@trisharose yeah I think It's best I don't remember all of it, makes me never wana give birth again honestly it hurt soo bad. The baby is fine thank god. She was in the nicu for a few days due to her not knowing how to breathe and suck at the same time but she's all good and perfect now
@jcbowker oh okay, I think she was just being a mean witch.. & really?? I had no idea I thought it was really weird she used more than half the bottle.
@trisharose thank you and yeah I know I will, I definitely plan to deliver at a different hospital when I have another baby but I'm still prolly guna be terrified.
hospitals arent suppose to be that way towards pregnant
woman medicaid or not they're suppose to treat you like a queen!
thank god the hospital i went to was amazing!
im sorry that you had a horrible time :[
i know labor hurts sometimes but
it shouldnt be that bad.
& definitely totally positively sure not going back to that stupid hospital when I get pregnant again. & thank you♥ congrats on your bundle of love too
@proudmommy8789 I didn't even think to ask for a different nurse
@jazzi89 oh believe me I wanted to kill I was so angry and in pain and like helpless but thankfully my whole family was in the waiting room and down the halls. My grandma said she heard my scream down the hall when they were putting the internal monitors up me and she went into a rage and started arguing with the anestheologist (sp?) To give me more epidural or something stronger. I read your labor story before to and yours was no fun either
@lmelanson summerlin ! I would've thought valley would've been the horrible one to go to.. I was supposed to go to valley but refused it kuz I thought this would've happened there but it would've probably been better for me. Lol
sorry you had to go through all that!