sister in law about to drive me crazyyyyy * long but i need HELP*
So my boyfriends sister( older than him and has 2 kids of her own) drives me crazy!! I literally can not stand her. Here's my story:
Let me start by sayin she is a POS mom already. She has 2 kids by 2 diff men (nothin wrong with that, my mom has 3 kids by 2 diff men) in which she lives off their child support checks. She has no job is married to someone in the navy who is deployed yet has a live in boyfriend since her husband is gone. She tells everyone a diff story about how she is gettin a divorce & when its finalized yet just yesterday she said she "filed for divorce today" on Facebook. Anyway she asks my Bf to pay for stuff for her kids bc she doesn't have the money (& we do pay for it every time bc we dont want the kids to do without) yet when she gets her income tax back she doesn't offer to give us money back or think to put it up for hard times she goes & spends ALL OF IT ON A BOOB JOB!!! but that's not it. My baby shower was Oct 1st and she threw a fit to be a host. Went as far as to tellin my Bf that i was mean and was tryin to keep our son from his family bc i didn't ask her or any of their family to help host it. (hello u don't ask people to host Ur shower, they just step in & ask the other people what can i do?) so anyway my hostess gift was my bed set, costing the hostess $40 each and bring a covered dish was their other priority she knew 2 months in advance that's what she had to pay no big deal she could afford that from what she said. But she also wanted to buy decorations bc it was her nephews baby shower and we do so much for her kids she feels like she owes it to us, AGAIN she VOLUNTEERED for this ENTIRE thing. NOBODY asked her. Well on Sept 10th we were all gonna meet for lunch and they were gonna pay the 40 dollars and discuss what foods were being brought. She's a no show. She texts me after the meeting & said she.was.deathly sick when i know it was a lie bc she was at my house the night before bbq'ing. Asks if she could pay the 40 dollars tomorrow as in the next day. Which was fine. Well the next day came no calls no texts won't answer my call nothing. She then text me 3 days later asking if she could borrow a shirt to go to a concert on Friday. I said yes & she comes to get it & i ask for the 40 dollars so i can order the gift. Well she's broke & don't have it. I looked at her like Wtf then why are u going to a concert on Friday & why did u just drive 35 mins to borrow a shirt. Why not wear one of Ur own???! Needless to say we have YET to see that 40 dollars from her which is fine bc we paid it bc its our child but STILL!!! Then 2 days before the shower she texts my Bf and tells him she can't afford to buy decorations can he buy them for her. My mom was pissed. So she buys the decor. The day of my shower she shows up with NO food NO money NO NOTHING!!!! & acts like its nothing. Wtf??! THEN asks me to babysit that night so she could have alone time with her boyfriend!!!! Oh by this.time im pissed i look at her & firmly said NO! lol
Now her & her Bf are broken up bc he realized she was lying about her "divorce" well this guy is a pretty decent guy and my Bf & i like him so we both become friends with him on FB well she text me yesterday flipping out on me because she thought it was odd that me & her ex Bf became friends on FB after the broke up. Wtf. I LIVE with Ur brother im pregnant by YOUR BROTHER why would i try to get with Ur ex!!!! U simple bitch! Lol Sry long vent but i need to know what to do bc obviously she is a drama queen and is never gonna change & im stuck dealing with her bc my Bf just ignores her & makes up and excuse for her. Should i tell her to lose my number & never contact me again or simply ignore her as well. I feel like ignoring her isn't helping bc she feels like its okay to continue being the way she is.... HELP!!!!!!
Let me start by sayin she is a POS mom already. She has 2 kids by 2 diff men (nothin wrong with that, my mom has 3 kids by 2 diff men) in which she lives off their child support checks. She has no job is married to someone in the navy who is deployed yet has a live in boyfriend since her husband is gone. She tells everyone a diff story about how she is gettin a divorce & when its finalized yet just yesterday she said she "filed for divorce today" on Facebook. Anyway she asks my Bf to pay for stuff for her kids bc she doesn't have the money (& we do pay for it every time bc we dont want the kids to do without) yet when she gets her income tax back she doesn't offer to give us money back or think to put it up for hard times she goes & spends ALL OF IT ON A BOOB JOB!!! but that's not it. My baby shower was Oct 1st and she threw a fit to be a host. Went as far as to tellin my Bf that i was mean and was tryin to keep our son from his family bc i didn't ask her or any of their family to help host it. (hello u don't ask people to host Ur shower, they just step in & ask the other people what can i do?) so anyway my hostess gift was my bed set, costing the hostess $40 each and bring a covered dish was their other priority she knew 2 months in advance that's what she had to pay no big deal she could afford that from what she said. But she also wanted to buy decorations bc it was her nephews baby shower and we do so much for her kids she feels like she owes it to us, AGAIN she VOLUNTEERED for this ENTIRE thing. NOBODY asked her. Well on Sept 10th we were all gonna meet for lunch and they were gonna pay the 40 dollars and discuss what foods were being brought. She's a no show. She texts me after the meeting & said she.was.deathly sick when i know it was a lie bc she was at my house the night before bbq'ing. Asks if she could pay the 40 dollars tomorrow as in the next day. Which was fine. Well the next day came no calls no texts won't answer my call nothing. She then text me 3 days later asking if she could borrow a shirt to go to a concert on Friday. I said yes & she comes to get it & i ask for the 40 dollars so i can order the gift. Well she's broke & don't have it. I looked at her like Wtf then why are u going to a concert on Friday & why did u just drive 35 mins to borrow a shirt. Why not wear one of Ur own???! Needless to say we have YET to see that 40 dollars from her which is fine bc we paid it bc its our child but STILL!!! Then 2 days before the shower she texts my Bf and tells him she can't afford to buy decorations can he buy them for her. My mom was pissed. So she buys the decor. The day of my shower she shows up with NO food NO money NO NOTHING!!!! & acts like its nothing. Wtf??! THEN asks me to babysit that night so she could have alone time with her boyfriend!!!! Oh by this.time im pissed i look at her & firmly said NO! lol
Now her & her Bf are broken up bc he realized she was lying about her "divorce" well this guy is a pretty decent guy and my Bf & i like him so we both become friends with him on FB well she text me yesterday flipping out on me because she thought it was odd that me & her ex Bf became friends on FB after the broke up. Wtf. I LIVE with Ur brother im pregnant by YOUR BROTHER why would i try to get with Ur ex!!!! U simple bitch! Lol Sry long vent but i need to know what to do bc obviously she is a drama queen and is never gonna change & im stuck dealing with her bc my Bf just ignores her & makes up and excuse for her. Should i tell her to lose my number & never contact me again or simply ignore her as well. I feel like ignoring her isn't helping bc she feels like its okay to continue being the way she is.... HELP!!!!!!
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