Zander Phoenyx is here!!!! photobucket link at top!!!
I would love to all of you know that HE'S HERE. He decided that he had enough hanging around and after 2hrs labour out he came. He is 6lb 3oz and 49cm long. Bub had to go to nicu for oxygen and temp but should be out soon. Mummy is doing ok but had a huge tear from him deciding hands first was the way to go.
Big thanx to
@thehumancrockpot
@1stwoodsbaby
And any I missed sorry
Photobucket link
http://s1235.photobucket.com/albums/ff435/madmike82/Zander Phoenyx 3rd of november/
Big thanx to
@thehumancrockpot
@1stwoodsbaby
And any I missed sorry
Photobucket link
http://s1235.photobucket.com/albums/ff435/madmike82/Zander Phoenyx 3rd of november/
Comments
@Alwayzbeenurz2008 yeah I was stressed too the limit today and had to leave the room a couple of times as I couldn't stand seeing my wife in so much pain. The midwife and I had just decided to override her on the pain meds when she needed to push, so it ended up all natural again. I think it will take a while till I'm ok because I feel I failed her by having to leave the room.
@Alwayzbeenurz2008 yeah I was stressed too the limit today and had to leave the room a couple of times as I couldn't stand seeing my wife in so much pain. The midwife and I had just decided to override her on the pain meds when she needed to push, so it ended up all natural again. I think it will take a while till I'm ok because I feel I failed her by having to leave the room.
@Alwayzbeenurz2008 yeah I was stressed too the limit today and had to leave the room a couple of times as I couldn't stand seeing my wife in so much pain. The midwife and I had just decided to override her on the pain meds when she needed to push, so it ended up all natural again. I think it will take a while till I'm ok because I feel I failed her by having to leave the room.
Thanx guess its something I just need to deal with in my head. Stress and very big lack of sleep has done a huge number on me. Wife is now all stable and blood loss has dropped to nearly nothing so is looking good for possible home on the 6th.
Thats ok I totally understand busy at the moment lol. She is actually finding everything really good even with how bad he tore her. She has found walking and toilet almost painless plus bleeding stopped at 2days pp. she had to have a drip to contract everything quickly because she was 20ml of blood loss away from having to have a transfusion. She is hopefully coming home in a couple of hours.
How is everything going for you?