i cant stop crying *update*

momof22be

I just had my baby on September 14th and we were having unprotected sex well I stopped bleeding and then three days later started to bleed again and stopped after a week I thought it was af well ever since then everytime I went to the bathroom I smelt death and I told hubby the toilet was dirty well we cleaned it and I still had that smell well I just went to the bathroom and a few big clumps came out and one was big on top had two little tiny stick looking things on the sides and was long and skinny on the bottom I called my mom and she is a cna I told her after that happened I took a shower and started cramping like I did when I was in labor she says I'm having a mc and what I thought was af was me losing it and it just dislodged now I'm still bleeding allot I know I can't handle another baby right now but I still can't stop crying.

***update****
So I have an infection and that is one reason why I had the mc plus she thinks that it was probably to low anyway I have meds now and ****** on the mini pill***** thank you ladies for all of your support through this (

Molly

I'm so very sorry!! Praying for you!

Lovinmyunborn

Oh no! I'm sooo sorry :-( are you ok? Duh! Of course not but you lost a baby of course your gonna cry! But I hope you feel better are you gonna go to the er? Please send me a message if you wanna talk

momof22be

@molly thank you
@lovinmyunborn I'm so sad I've never seen anything like it before it was so sad I just started shaking and couldn't hold it anymore and flushed it down the toilet if I would have known I would have buried it I even touched it I feel so bad like I'm such a stupid ass for having unprotected sex

vanalkr

Praying for you.

momof22be

@vanalkr thank you

momof22be

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Lovinmyunborn

It's not your fault! You didn't know you were pregnant.Did you have any symptoms? I'm sad for you :-( it's a horrible feeling to lose a baby at any age! Where's hubby? Is he home? You don't need to be alone right now love,you need some emotional support

momof22be

Hes home and he just said idk what u want me to do and why r u on pregly u should be spending time with me its like it means nothing to him and I didn't know but I had a gut feeling I think he doesn't believe me since it was so hard for me to get pregnant with jasmine @lovinmyunborn

momof22be

I couldn't have been more than a few weeks

Kimberly4411

Aww, i'm sorry hun maybe mention to your husband that you were very fertile after baby was born, I hope he sees that you need him right now, good luck, we're all here for you

Lovinmyunborn

He's not very supportive at the moment & that sucks but you've got me snd pregly :-) I hate for you to be sad but you have every right! What did your mom say to do? You don't need to go to the er? Or because the baby dislodged you'll be ok

Kimberly4411

Wrong smiley

momof22be

@kimberly4411 he knows but he doesn't believe it that's why he wasn't pulling out hes such a Dick sometimes
@lovinmyunborn I know its horrible ( she said my body is already passing it and I should be fine but she wants me to get a balloon and write a note to my baby and let it go tomorrow I'm scared to do it alone but maybe I need to idk I'm so mixed up right now thanks for being here for me it means soooo much

mommimisha

Sorry for yur loss... that's gave me chills!! Ihope everything is ok and ihope yur ok!!! Hubby probably reacted that way because he is to hurt.. men have diff. Ways of showing that they're hurt and in pain... dnt beat yurself up over thee situation ... its not yur fault just pray and knw everything will be ok...
Thee balloon and note it an awesome idea

momof22be

@mommimisha thank you Hun I wish he had some heart he now just told me I should at least be thankful for the kids I have

tinka1326

I had a mc December last year. My partner and I were having sex, I felt something odd and we stopped for a moment, then there was blood everywhere. I ended up passing the baby in the shower, it was awful. I didn't know I was pregnant either but it doesnt make the loss any less real. I wrote in a diary, got out all the feelings I couldn't say outloud and it helped alot. Take things one day at a time and take as much time as you need to grieve dont let anyone make you feel like you shouldnt have grief for your loss. I also named my baby... It helped giving a name to her (always felt it would have been a girl)

mommimisha

Ooooooo wow!! Now that's rude af ugh guys can be so rude... honestly though he probably feels bad and his way of coping is being an a hole... but at a time like this is NO time to be an a hole... lemme tell yu us women go through a lot and we are strong individuals so dnt let some words get to yu as hard as it is especially coming from thee one yu love... just ignore him and show him he doesn't get to yu and he probably will stop

momof22be

@tinka1326 thanks Hun I think that sounds like a good idea
@mommimisha he has stopped now I really don't know what's going on with him but whatever he seems ok its weird

@everyone I'm off to bed too sag to stay awake right now

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angel26

That's terrible. Why didnt you text me. Im so sad for you right now. :,(

starrxoxo9

Omg!! You poor thing. I'm so sorry!!!! Men sometimes don't know how to express their emotions, and its stupid. I know it wouldn't have been an ideal time to have another baby but I understand why you're sad. And its ok to feel any way you want. Hang in there hun. We're all here for you!!! :X

MommyLovesSparkle

myHEARTZx3

omg soo sorry, that breaks my heart

momof22be

@marinesangel me too. (
@angel26 sorry mama it was late and I didn't want to wake u or your kids
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@starrxoxo9 thanks Hun and I know he is doing a lot better about it he held me all night and thank you

Yeseniadiaz59

So sorry to hear that: (

starrxoxo9

Thats good. How are you today??

Lovinmyunborn

Yea that's a great idea! Take hubby along even if he's still in denial & no problem your here for me wgen I'm having my rants & complaints! Just returning the favor! Hope you feel better & remember its ok to cry

momof22be

@yeseniadiaz59 me too. (
@starrxoxo9 I'm ok I guess I'm going to go buy a pregnancy test and I called my ob and they blew it off so I called another office and they want me to come in for complete blood work they say it doesn't sound good. (
@Lovinmyunborn I'm going in to another docs office and I'm going to take a home pregnant test we will see how it goes

starrxoxo9

They blew it off??? What the hell!! How could they even do that?! Ugh that makes me so mad!! When are u going in??

angel26

You could have texted anyway. Im glad your going to a different dr. Im sorry your office is being stupid. Text me later k.