im 4 weeks postpartum andddddd

JnetteP

I wanna have sexxxx! Lmao I've been desiring it more now that I'm no longer pregnant. I stopped bleeding two weeks ago I feel like I'm pretty much back to normal but I don't know if I want to part take in intercourse just yet, even tho my boyfriend wants to just as much as I do! I told him to get a condom and he looked at me like I had six heads lol we've neverrrr used condoms but I'm not on birth control either yet! He was gona pull out as we usually would but I just don't know ... advice please ladies! Should I or should I not and ladies who haveee had sex before their six weeks unprotected .

laura536

If you choose to have sex, you should definitely use a condom. You are super fertile after you give birth and you can get pregnant again right away. Pulling out is not effective birth control.

lily_glz

Lol I was the same as you! I had sex 4weeks pp and used a condom the first few weeks I'm now 11 weeks pp and he pulls out and sometimes wears a condom I'm not on bc. So far we're good I'm on my 2nd period after baby let's hope we can not get preggo til my daughter is out of diapers! Lol

musicmomma

I'm almost six weeks pp and we tried last night with a condom and I couldn't go through with it. It hurt so effing bad! If anyone has awesome advice to follow through, let me know!

JnetteP

@lily_glz lolll its hard to resist! Are you planning on getting on birth control tho? I'm getting the IUD put in on my 6 week check up he just doesn't want to wait lol

lily_glz

No... I'm scared it'll mess me up. Plus I only have 1 fallopian tube and id like to keep everything in there clean and healthy bc I do wanna have more kids. I don't wanna ruin my 1 tube lol. And bc makes me act crazy I've tried the shot, I bled the entire time.. the pill, I couldn't stand my hubby and had serious mood swings... I'm too scared to try iud. I was thinking maybe nuva ring but nah, we can't affford it anyway

JnetteP

@lily_glz really? When do you plan on having your next child? I was using the nuva ring prior to getting pregnant it worked well for me and nownim considering the IUD..

lily_glz

As soon as my daughter is potty trained so around 2 yrs old we can start trying and 9 months later she should be well potty trained. When is your next?