I need, help, advice and suggestion... (possible cheating husband)
I normally don't go through my husband's things but the other night he was asleep and I went to get his phone on of his coat pocket to charge it. I pulled out a recipt (sp?) and noticed it had 2 meals on it... sometime he eats 2 sandwiches or whatever so at first I didn't think anything of it. Then I noticed it also had 2 drinks... So I woke him up and asked him who he had taken to eat and he at first he was like what are you talking about then I told him I had found the recipt and that there were 2 drinks on it so he said he took 2 girls from work (his employees) to lunch, but he did not eat... Why would you take people to lunch and not eat???? Not to mention that it was 2 managers from the same store so who was the person running the store while they were out? So I began to question him more and he said that they didn't have a way to work so he drove them to work. Since when is it his problem if people cannot get to work? That same night he called me and asked me to send him numbers to hotels in that area for his boss???? He had worked 8am to 10pm most of the day that week which is not normal but happens on occasion because he has several stores that he runs. It's not really that he took the women (if there really were 2) to work or lunch it's that I had to find out about by snooping and he did not tell me because he had told me about everything else that was going on at work just failed to mention that part. So this morning after I fed our daughter I fell back asleep on the couch and had a dream that I had caught him with one of the women he took to lunch having an affair... My dad called and said sorry for waking you and I told him I'm glad you did I was having a horrible dream. I explained the dream to him and he told me that a week agohe had a dream that my husband had cheated it upset him but he didn't think he would ever do it so he didn't tell me. I have never talked to my dad about any of our problems or even about him taking (women) to lunch so this has got me really bothered. My husband and I had an agreement that we would not got to lunch with the opposite sex even a harmless lunch with a co-worker. I just can't believe he didn't even tell me and I feel like dreams do have some meaning. I just don't know what to do... I need advice or suggestions on what to do and possibly ways to do things without distroying what I have if I am just over reacting. I swear I am about to have a nervous breakdown... If your still reading thank you I'm sorry it's so long I just didn't want to miss anything so I can get the most accurate responces. I am open to anything and please do not feel the need to sugar coat weather its me or him in the wrong. thanks
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