I hate my bd!!

jamasynsmama7_21

So we fight everyday. The latest one is cause we made a deal he could go to his friends house fit the night leaving me with our four month old {which is a weekly thing} but he said he would be home before noon so eleven thirty comes around and nothing no phone call nothing so I try calling him no answer. so now I'm thinking he did call me when he got to his friends house last night so I start worrying. Well finally he calls at 1 so I ask him where he is and hes a complete douche about it saying he just woke up. And saying I'm being a bitch about everything. so anyway he comes home and we start talking and basically is trying to turn everything around on me making me seem like the bad guy. So then he storms out of our house didn't even ask how are son was or even bother going to see him. And now its six and guess where he is in his game room with his stupid friend. And I'm taking care of our son like always. Ehh just so sick of his sh*t and I really need a friend but no I gave them all up for his dumb ass. I know stupid. Sorry its so long just had to get it out.

MissQ_1stTimeMommy2B

I HATE mines too!!!...jus wanted to say that.

mummy2B

My bd makes me sick at times too. With his constant dissapearing and not calling for days at a time . His irresponibility , losing jobs left and right and him constantly lieing to me . Especially with the baby on the way in less than 2 weeks . He acts like a child and I'm tired of it , I did decided to give him one last chance but I still feel were headingin that direction of being single parents

jamasynsmama7_21

@mummy2b ya I feel like a single parent my bd can't even handle our son crying the only thing he does is works and supports us but thats only 4 hours a day.
do you know what your having?

mummy2B

I'm having a girl. Right now my bd and I are trying to work things out, he has a lot of issues he needs to address fairly quickly especially with the baby going to be here any moment. My bigges issue is his lack of consideration and drive in life. Currently he just got a job after getting fired from two other ones prior, he at times makes very selfish childish deciisons that affect us both and he dosent see it that way like leaving out without telling me where he is going he will be gone for hours and not call and walked in the house smelling like alcohol at 2am he's done this atleast four times once he was even gone like 3 days with no contact . Today we had a long discussion and we argued a bit but I got my point across and let him know this is his final chance to change or I'm done.