this is a lot of tmi..about vaginas

moodymommie

ok so me and bd had sex today but a bunch of air kept going in and it was uncomfortable & annoying.. after bd said so is your stiches all better? did they sew you up good? & I said yeah it doesnt hurt as much &then he said oh ok the hole is kinda big now but its ok maybeit just takes time? & he said thats why air kept going in (he didnt say this in a mean way) but im 6 w pp how long is it supposed to take?!! im only 20& a ftm! sex hasnt felt as good either wtf please tell me im not wrecked forever.

tinka1326

Just keep up your kegals and things will go back. Your body went through 9 months if changes will take more than 6 weeks to bounce back fully

moodymommie

@tinka1326 I really hope so! its taking longer then I thought for my body to go back to normal I feel wreckrd all over! ugh

LolasBabyNum1

Im a lil past 2mnths PP and my body is still tryna fix itself including my vaj lol. Im 19 soo dont feel to bad im a 1st time mom as well

moodymommie

@sophiasmom11 so everything went back to normal down there?
@lolasbabynum1 no one told me this was gonna happen!

LolasBabyNum1

Yeah I know tell me about it! My crotch is tore up (tmi sorry) and I got stretchmarks like crazy. Smh it was for a good cause though

moodymommie

@sophiasmom11 lol he said it feels the same after 3 months? did he say it was different before the 3 months? I hate feeling self consious ugh

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mommyof3girls

Keep doing the kegals however, i pushed 3 nine pound babys out... My vag will NEVER b the same.

moodymommie

@armahnismommy lol I hope its soon! its crazy how we grow humans

moodymommie

@mommyof3girls omg you are super woman! I only pushes one 7lb baby out. I would have asked the dr to tighten things up down there

duskbydawn

I'm 3 months post partum. I pushed out an 8 lb 6 oz baby girl. And I'm still not like I used to be. And I had no tares or cuts. With My first little one at 6lbs 11oz I tightend back up I think around, 6 months or so. But was already tighter at around this point then than I was now. It definitivly is different now. And also have this extra tummy fat and skin that won't go down

LolasBabyNum1

@duskbydawn wow u didnt rip? I have a mean tear that doesnt close up I think its healing that way.
You must have alot if elasticity down there lol.

moodymommie

I didnt know it would take so long!

duskbydawn

@lolasbabynum1- lol. Yeah I was shocked. But labor went pretty fast and I was always working on my kegels. With my first I had a small laceration. My husband was pretty schocked to lol. Since I'm still a small lady.

LolasBabyNum1

@duskbydawn wow im jealous lol im very petite & my laceration still hasnt closed up im 2mnths pp