Regrets
Well for my first post............ I'm going to post something that I have not read on here before (although that does not mean that it has not been talked about). Has anyone got their tubes tied, had there husband snipped, or done any other things to not get pregnant anymore and have later regretted it?
I'm wondering because I used to want a large family but both of my pregnancies were rough and with my last one I had to have a planned csection at 37 weeks. I would not mind more kids but I DO NOT want to go through pregnancy again. I had cholestasis of pregnancy (liver failure) and it was absolutely miserable. You itch so bad, my feed were raw and bleeding so bad and I wish for no one to ever have to experience this. I had to have csections with both of my boys and the doctor said I would always have to and he does not recommend getting pregnant again. My husband would love a little girl but understands it is not good for my health. With all of this being said, I wanted to have my husband get a vasectamey (which he agreed to) and I wanted to know if anyone has done something like this and regretted it in the past? I'm not sure if I should wait until we are older (both 24) or just do it now?
I'm wondering because I used to want a large family but both of my pregnancies were rough and with my last one I had to have a planned csection at 37 weeks. I would not mind more kids but I DO NOT want to go through pregnancy again. I had cholestasis of pregnancy (liver failure) and it was absolutely miserable. You itch so bad, my feed were raw and bleeding so bad and I wish for no one to ever have to experience this. I had to have csections with both of my boys and the doctor said I would always have to and he does not recommend getting pregnant again. My husband would love a little girl but understands it is not good for my health. With all of this being said, I wanted to have my husband get a vasectamey (which he agreed to) and I wanted to know if anyone has done something like this and regretted it in the past? I'm not sure if I should wait until we are older (both 24) or just do it now?
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To the post. I was married for 10 yrs and my ex husband and I had 2 together and one each from high school loves. Well he got snipped. When we divorced I ended up getting into another relationship and had a baby. My honey didn't have kids. Now I'm 37 with my new baby and I definitely know I'm done. Just had my tubes tide last week.
With saying this... Just wait a little cause I'm glad I did.. not saying you'll leave your husband just saying if you unsure don't do it.