Lost w only faith

MzGarcia_july_baby

My man always wants me to go with him to his family members house so he can drink while still "spending time with me", I hate going over there cuz his family always hint to me that they believe I'm not the last girl he'll be with and I'm just another mistake like his daughters mother. They always say things like "he has bad luck with girls and got yall pregnant" they even asked me if I was going to tie my tubes after I give birth..I'm only 23...of course not! I had been biting my tongue for months. Today he asked me to go with him and I told him no and gave my reason thinking hed understand and sympathize, boy was I wrong, he flipped out and didn't believe me. My heart was broken I broke down and prayed for god to help me be strong..he walked in on me praying and mocked me...Made me feel humiliated inverting of god. I'm trying so hard not to give up but I'm so hurt, whats left to do after turning to god and being laughed at?

mommy2be24

Continue to pray to God and let him deal with Ur man and his family members..:)...u doing the right thing...and a person can only take but so much...stay strong...and laugh at him

MsKrystal

God will work it out. Pray for patience.

MzGarcia_july_baby

Thanks guys, I'm trying to stay positive

momx3n2011

I normally wouldn't say this, but I would consider leaving him...those are some serious issues n if he and his fmily don't believe in God and thy drink and live a negative lifestyle...think how thts going to affect your child...u have to teach your child wat is right and do wats best for him or her...do you have family support? even if u don't permanently break it off, u could give him an ultimatum to treat you better and take your side or you will have to leave for the baby's sake!

MzGarcia_july_baby

@momx3n2011 I have considered this, but my home town is 8+ hrs away from where I currently live, him and his family r all I have here. If I go back home I risk my baby being withOut dad. I see how that is on my first kid and wouldn't want that for this baby also. But I knw its not right for him to treat me like this...so I think I have quite the delema on my hands

coolbabybeans

If he treats u bad he could do the same to your child. Sometimes its better to go without a dad than to have a bad one. There are lots of good men who believe in god who are dying to have a family. Best wishes