How do I get through to him??
Me and my ex broke up like 3 weeks ago after 2 and a half years.. Well he broke up with me with no clear reason other than he just wants to be by himself. He was living with me and my family and wanted space. We found out we were pregnant not to long after we broke up. We have had 3 mc together and were ttc before we broke up so this was planned! And now I feel so alone. Like I thought him and I were gonna start working on things and get closer again but I feel like he's not even trying.. I am so sad and lonely. Some part of me feels like he is talking to someone new but he just won't tell me. He says he's not but why isn't he trying harder with me. I ask him if he's just not in love with me anymore and he says that's not it. I just dont get it! I feel like he is just having fun doing whatever he wants until he knows whether or not we are really having a baby or not. It just kills me. Idk what to do anymore. I mean we tried getting pregnant and having a family and now it's happening but he isn't trying to fix things with me. he says he is not going to abandon me or the baby and he went to our dr appt and helped pay for my medicine and stuff but I feel like emotionally he is not there for me. I just know when my belly starts getting bigger and he realizes its actually happening he'll wanna fix things and I'm just going to be so fed up by then. And have all this resentment towards him for letting me be alone in the beginning. I just dont know what to do to get through to him! I could use any advice. I am so hormonal, sad, and just lonely!
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I know its hard but stop calling and texting him and basically act like u dont care, its going to make him miss u and hopefully realize he does not want to lose u. Right now he probably thinks he can do whatever he wants and in the end u will still be there not only bcuz he knows u love him but bcuz u are pregnant with his child and u need to make him value u.
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@kendylsmommy I know I have always put him first... I need to just let him be and put myself first it's just so easier said then done I'm so heartbroken
Its going to be very hard but just keep remembering the situation u are in. And u are right, if he keeps this up you are going to have alot of resentment towards him, I went through this. It took a very long time for it to go away so I'm hoping that he opens his eyes soon before your sadnesd starts turning into anger and building up.
@roxy that's my plan. I am leaving him alone and acting like I dont care even though I do so much. but like I said I have no more left to give. I am hurting so bad. I just don't know how to get past it. Especially being pregnant I am not myself anymore