Should I not be bothered???
Bd is the one that has begged the last few days for me to date him.. Then as soon as I say ok and I say put it on your fb that your in a relationship he gets bothered. Like wtf? Lol. I know it's just dumb Facebook but it means something to me to have it on there so people know hes takin. He's just like I dont even go on Facebook. Its stupid. I'm like for real. Ok were not dating then. And hes like oh ok then. I am bothered. If I wasn't pregnant I wouldn't even be trying with his ass. He should feel lucky I'm hanging out with him. Ughhhh!
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Its just facebook he can always just tell people hes taken. Besides I have seen alot of ppl on facebook playing with relationship statuses, they change it to much. No one really takes facebook seriously.
Its more important what he does with or without you in person and in public.
If he doesnt wanna be with you he wouldnt try and stay with you. It does sound like hes trying to be better, I dont know if its because of your pregnancy or you. But by what your saying here he doesnt seem like the guy who would back stabb you. Bring up that concern to him, its may not be a severe as you think it is.
I had my share of being insecure and wild about things my husband said or did and after I talked to him it turned out it wasnt as bad as I thought it was, so u stressed myself out more than what was neccessary.
Take care of yourself and your pregnancy and just try to work it out with him with whatever may be the cause of your insecurities and problems.
Good luck!
Now... I am 17 weeks 5 days pregnant with our second child and I am so thankful for this baby and so excited and our daughter is almost 7 months old. BUT!!!!! He keeps thinking he can pick me up and drop me whenever he wants. I stay with Jemma and he calls me lazy, that I just wanna sit on my ass and do nothing while he goes and works outta town and that HE is going to put himself on child support because he knows I'll eventually leave him. Umm does that make sense to you?! Lmao I had an amazing job when we met and I took him out to dinner and to movies whenever he wanted and yet he complained because "all we do is movies and food - you aren't adventurous". And now that I've been preg back to back with no job for less than a year and he's had his job for ONLY 4 months, he's gonna call me a mooch and leave ME?! Hahaha
Oh wow - well, this stuff has been recent so I'm guessing I just needed to vent. Lmao anyways, that's my story about Facebook. My opinion: DON'T stay just because you're pregnant. Like I said, I am thrilled for this baby but as rude as it may sound, I feel I have the right to say that these two blessings are the only things that are good that came from him. You're already blessed with this baby... Now do what's best for you. Dont settle - WE deserve better!!!