off fb gonna come here...

Mama_busy_bee

I will miss my like button and notifications.....but my ex pulled some stuff. Child support called him n let him know they were pursuing enforcement actions aka arrest warrant. So he filed for a modificstion. I don't want screenshots or spies gabbing about me so I deactivated for now.

Máthair

Just make sure if you posted your email on here the comment was deleted. If your email was posted someone can Google search it and it will show up.

Sorry you had to go to such extreme lengths, I know how you feel.

captivated

Hey lady! You're Mellissa, right?

Mama_busy_bee

Yes. Is that true? Can I change it?

Mama_busy_bee

Hi ash

Mama_busy_bee

Seriously how do I fix it or do I just delete this too?

captivated

Google your email address and see what pops up. If nothing, don't worry about it.

captivated

However, this has zilch on the matter of privacy. You were better off on Facebook for that. Lol.

Mama_busy_bee

True if someone knows who I am. I just figured I'd take a break from fb. It may be too.late and if not too many spies. I can go back n they won't know I'm there n I can block. If he's filing bs petitions to modify....he found out I pushed enforcement. Even funnier, my.comments on the pro bike.rally pics got deleted. I feel famous that they had to have the photographer do that lol.

Mama_busy_bee

Googled it, nothing came up. Am I safe?

RedShadoe0

I'd think so as long as he doesn't know your user name on here.

Mama_busy_bee

Nah no one knows about pregly at all. No one would care. My current hubs barely knows I use a "mommy" website. Lol. I feel safer here kinda.

captivated

I meant in the matter of Google. It's very easy for this site to pop up under your name and email. That's what my ex used against me in court, though it didn't matter because I still won.

Mama_busy_bee

Omg seriously? I thought he knew bout pregly. That's presicely why I'm off fb. I.was.married 12 yrs to him, I've known his adult.cousins since they were 6 yrs old. Tons of his fam is like my own family. But I caught one talking Shit so..... I trust no one. I may do like Mandy n start over I dunno. Or go on in a few weeks late at night n block anyone I don't want. As far as they will know I just deactivated.

Mama_busy_bee

@captivated

captivated

Oh yeah. Nothing from FB was every used because of my strict privacy settings and extreme caution with my friend's list. No one on my friend's list knew him and if they did, I would kindly apologize and tell them I could not add them until our custody case was over.

They used almost 60 posts I had from here in court. Would make me read highlighted segments out loud. For example, one of them about excessive vaginal bleeding. And the other about my overproduction of breastmilk. :O The reason? To show I wasn't medically fit to have custody. Very embarrassing.

We had posts of him being drunk, partying and hiring escorts. When the judge made his final ruling, he said that while I shouldn't post up such personal things online, how can they accuse me of being an unfit/bad parent when I am using a PARENTING forum. That obviously, if I did not care about my child, I wouldn't be online constantly using a parenting forum. That he has many hobbies, like hunting (constantly away from my daughter by hunting) and while hobbies are perfectly fine, I HAVE no hobbies. That my hobbies are my children and that showing the "Pregly" posts, they only furthered that belief in his head.

The Judge and attorneys were very funny with the entire pregly thing. His lawyer said Pregly and the Judge stopped and pronounced it again. Then said, "what the hell is a pregly?"

LOL.

captivated

Oh, I forgot to mention that my ex was never aware of me posting here. Him and his attorney found it by searching google.

The only people aware of me using this are my BD and a few friends. Only reason some of my friend's know is when drama happens and we laugh at some of the ignorance posted.

Mama_busy_bee

Yeah no one I know is here I don't think. I didn't take it too serious but I've had some issues that literally only strangers could hear. I have cut so many people out of my life its kinda lonely esp when me n hubs are having probs like today.

captivated

Oh no What's going on?

Mama_busy_bee

Same old. He.wakes up like.a.bear. bitches all the way to the toilet with his morning wood. Well a water heater he installed yesterday quit working he was on the phone with his dad. I hired them to do it. I.suggest the tenant check the breaker.....he.screams at me not to inturrupt his phone call and the chevked. That. I'm like oh really since it quit working you checked it? From there rude rude....he made me apologize then he apologized for yelling. Then goes.see, that's easy. Another comment! I was pissed now cuz he was patronizing. He stomps up the stairs n yells something I didn't hear. My eldest came down pissed. She was woken up to hik yelling "fucking cunt". New low. No one.calls me that. It's not normal. He left....but my eldest text him cuz he denied saying it. All 3 girls heard him.

captivated

That is not okay to say in the first place...but to say it around your CHILDREN? He needs to be slapped. That pisses me off.

Mama_busy_bee

Justification: he was saying it to himself. Lol. Now I'm not worth acknowledging because I'm over sensitive. I wish he'd leave. I just wanna sleep.