worst birthday...

waasae

my husband and I called it quits today, it's completely over....
I don't know what to do, I just can't stop crying. I don't know how to be a single mother...

happy birthday to me...

Mama_busy_bee

OMG I am so sorry. Are you sure its done, not just a fight. That is messed up to act a fool on your birthday. I am so sorry. I know you CAN be a great single mom, but its a rough road but we survive!

waasae

unfortunately we have been fighting a lot, since we had our 2nd son in sept. we haven't been happy and now it's escalated to this... I feel so bad for our oldest, he cried when his dad left. I honestly don't even know if I care for him anymore, at the moment, I'm more sad for our boys...

thank you @mama_busy_bee!!!

second_time_mommy7

I'm so sorry your going through that, especially on your birthday. I was a single mom for 2 years before I met my now husband. It gets tough at times but your babies give you reason to push through. Women do it everyday! You and your children are in my prayers!

waasae

thank you @second_time_mommy7!!
I'm going to give myself this day to cry and eat some cake and then tomorrow, start thinking what I need to do. I've been a sahm, so first on my priority list is going back to work... sigh.

sehra4177

Awe, sorry to hear this. I know what you mean tho about being sad for the kids. Things will get better. Will be praying for you...def cry it out and pick yourself up dust off and do for yourself and kids:):)

Mama_busy_bee

bump how is it going? I have had a few bad "fight nights" and thought it was over, but he and i keep going through the motions.

waasae

Thank you very much @sehra4177. I've just been trying to keep myself very busy.

@mama_busy_bee - unfortunately, the seperation is still going strong. I did try asking him to go to counseling with me, but he just said there's no point, he doesn't want to be married to me anymore. 6 years, and he's not willing to try.

waasae

Thank you, @bexiewexie!!

It's just terrible, I never thought this would happen to us. I was so sure our marriage was stronger than this, and was a blessing. Clearly, it was all one-sided.