my Ex's father past way

Val

so my sons grandpa passed away couple of days ago and his services are coming up. Im really close to my ex family still even though we split up over 5 yrs ago. im kinda nervous to attend. My ex n I speak ONLY about my son. He has this gf that hates me with her lil life. lol idk i have so many mixed emotions about being around his whole family. its not that i dont want too but he acts like a jerk w me when shes around cus hes told me b4 its easier to act like a jerk with me to please her than to hear bitch about me! idk deep down i know hes hurting ive known him for over 10 yrs ( i was only 13 when we started "dating") ive txt him couple of days ago asking how hes feeling no responce!

i need ur girls advice should i stick around the house after burial to show my support to his family or not to i guess satisfy her?
mind yu they have a lil boy together n they leave together its been pretty clear me n him have no feelings for eachother i have my relationship that im happy about & i guess i just feel bad cus his family dont caRe for too much lol shes a very very disrespectful person ...what should i do

natashalynn

I would go to the service to support your kid losing his grandpa, and offer your condolences to his family. I wouldn't run out like a scared rabbit, but I wouldn't stay too long either. It'll be a balancing act on your part, but the say isn't about you and her, or you and him. It's about respecting a man who's passed away, and if you keep that in mind, I'm sure you'll be fine!

Val

yes ur girls are right! makes me feel better

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RedShadoe0

Yep.... For some reason the mentality 'i was here guest's comes to mind Haha. But i agree... It's your sons family, don't scurry out to make some jealous b**** happy.

smcox

I got really close to an ex's family and his sister actually ended up being one of my best friends. Their grandma passed away last August. Well I not only still talked to the rest of the family, I still checked in on the grandparents often cuz I knew it was only a matter of time. Well my ex has a new gf who was preggo as well, our due dates were two weeks apart. She doesn't like me and never has, probably cuz we had a baby together, but lost it, and I was his first serious relationship, and still talk with everyone and very closer with his sister. I get it, whatever lol but without question went to the funeral. Purposely sat towards the back (though that was more for the fact that I was 8 months preggo and pee'd a lot lol) then at the reception I of course sat with his sister and she made a point to sit far away. Kept looking at me and giving me dirty looks. Eh, not sure why she feels the need to be rude, I'm married and have my own kid and zero intentions of doing anything with him. I see her from time to time, they are poor so I have given them diapers that Damien grew out of before we finished them. Not gonna let her awkwardness affect me helping that poor kid. Do what you need to and ignore her. She needs to get over it cuz you aren't going anywhere! Because of your son you will always be in each others lives.

YNVTish

You should go to show your support buy absolutely do not stick around. You should respect your Ex and his surroundings... Including not making him uncomfortable around his GF.

It's kinda like this. You have his kid so yeah you'll always have a tie to the family buy realistically the new chick is front a center and you'll probably only cause more stress on yourself sticking around.

Also, don't expect your EX to want and communicate with you since his dad past away. Could be a great chance he's in an angry mode because of the death which means he doesn't need much of a reason to be even a BIGGER jerk now