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2ndOnTheWay

Ok this is going to sound so terrible! Im pregnant with my second child with my fiance. We wanted to try to have another baby next year but surprise lol. I don't want to be pregnant I feel im not mentally ready yet but I am. My fiance said if I don't have this baby were not going to get married and the wedding will be off. Am I selfish (im not going to abort I don't believe in it) im confused and scared. I know we're suppose to be together and he's supportive I just think he's not understanding what im going through.

mom2be0529

You're not being selfish, and honestly him telling you the weddings off isn't very supportive.. if anything HES the one being selfish. Finding out your pregnant is a big then whether its your first or fifth and you need time to.prepare yourself... you need to sit down and explain to him EXACTLY how you feel and he's not making it any better.. I'm sure you'll get through this but being stressed wont help anything

jcmommy

The majority of men can't explain things like women can. He's not selfish, he's truthful. Nobody is ever 'ready' for kids, but you were planning on having another one anyways. Try to think about all the positive things. The new baby can be apart of the wedding and in all the photos that you will have for years! It's all about love and family. Try not to stress too much. Good luck to you.

lovebeingamom

I agree with momtobe. I would sit him down and say ok we are having a baby, but I need you to understand and help me through this. It not always easy . So all the support and understanding can go a long way and maybe make you feel better knowing that your ppl understand your feelings. Hope it helps! Wish u the best.