what would you do? *update @ bottom*
I just found out that my bfs talking to another girl behind my back. When I moved out for 5 days at the beginning of the year they were talking, and I told her to fuck off, and stop calling....well he's been really shady about his phone lately, and after he fell asleep tonight I checked it. They've been talking on fb and I seen they've been calling each other. Apparently they hung out 5/4, and he took her lighter, and told her he loved her. Wtf. What else did they do that I don't know about?? I'm so pissed and hurt. I want to wake him up and yell at him. Now I don't even trust him when he says he's going to work or his grandparents business.
What should I do? Should I confront him and ask him wtf's going on? I know he's going to say ”well you talk to guys all day long” which doesn't even happen...he constantly says that to me, even though I tell him ”go ahead and look through my phone, I'm not hiding anything”
What should I do? Should I confront him and ask him wtf's going on? I know he's going to say ”well you talk to guys all day long” which doesn't even happen...he constantly says that to me, even though I tell him ”go ahead and look through my phone, I'm not hiding anything”
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Think before you speak and act. I know it's hard when all you want to do is confront.
Normally no, but lately if I even look at his phone he grabs it up, and hides it, and at night he puts it under his pillow...so I knew he was hiding something.
@mijita I've told him that before and he says I only say that because I'm the one cheating..like I have that much time on my hands. I don't even want to contact her, it's just going to stress me out further, but now that I think about it he ALWAYS has to go places by himself, and right after he either go to sleep or gets in the shower asap.
@salasmommy I don't think he has any respect for me. He's constantly telling me how fat, and ugly I am regardless of the fact I'm 6months pregnant with our second. He should have stopped youre right, I just don't know how long he's been doing this for, and to not delete the message was him begging to get caught.
I haven't confronted him yet, the whole day I just give him dirty looks and won't speak to him so he know's i'm pissed off about something..he went to go pick up his paycheck, and I texted him after he left that we needed to talk when he gets back..so i'll update after I talk to him.
You have too be smart think of your options carefully..
If he is sleeping with her he can give you a disease the doctors only check at the beggining of the pgncy god forbid you pass it to your baby
So get checked and stop the sex I read that tall aren't doing it anyway but go to the doctor
Another thing you have no where to go so you can etheir one try to make it work with him as he is the father of your children and you are about to pop. He must assure you that he stopped.contact maybe delete his fb change his number whatever to make you feel secure you have to lay the cards on the table and say hey your about to have two kids if you want to give them a FAMILy you need to change
Another option is go to a shelter file child support they give you a place to stay and the help they give you is huge they find daycare for you get you into emergency housing help you find a job..you can make it on your own.. it is up to you..