Off sex hubby frusrrated
my baby is 7m, me and hubs have only has sex about 6 times since he was born, to start with I was worried sonwthing was wrong down there after forceps and episiotomy but now think its just not being relaxed makes it hard to put it' inside. I am still bfeeding, baby is a terrible sleeper and that first stretch of sleep is the best and all I want to do after a rubbish nights sleep and tiring day with baby is sleep. Husband always gets annoyed with me if I say I am too tired and if I go alobg with itlt he gets annoyed cos he says it feels lije ge is rapung me or something. I tried to explain tgat I am tired and need a bit more tgan a few kisses then stickibg it in lol. It just leds to arguments nj ut all I want to do is relax and take things slwly, any advice ladies? X
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Should have said I have very low self esteem at the moment and zero sex drive at night and hubby out all day.
@armahnismommy I usually nap when bubs does but hardly get anything done and little bits of sleep still sucks lol, dont like not satisfying him but im a bad actress!janet_2011©
I think maybe when I stop breastfeedung things will get easier, I loved sex before and now I feel like 99% of the time I eould happily go without, hormones??
@mrs4c thanks it has drfo got easier already just feels odd for the first few ins then it feels ok but usually over by then too
Just want it to be fun and normal! X
your man is just very hard to please
Tomorrow I will be up at 430am to vet ready for work. Last 4 days and then I'm done lol.
@dadof2n1togo oh wow, every day that passes i notice that your wife is an ungreatful person, you deserve better.