ALL the time! Lol I live in a small town and constantly run into people from my past and most of the time I end up laughing in their face bc I can't believe I was ever even interested in them! I've dated guys who are " goth " and wear more make up than me, and a guy , who I swear thinks he's karate kid, and wears a bandana as a sweat band around his head 24/7...and I've never seen him in anything other than sweat pants! I'm constantly wondering what I was thinking! Did you run into an ex or just have a flashback? Lol
@mrz_jackson lol ikr @blessestxmom aw...I'm still waiting on my true love @luvmy5 lmbo I think I was drunk @joshneviesmum omg I cringe all the time. I seriously must have been looney when I was dating some my exes....yucky lol
@stephenie I hate that..like hello ur my ex for a reason but then again it does make u feel a lil good bc u can turn them down n say u should've treated me when u had me
@BlessedTXMom Thats so true, it comes when you least expect it. I met my husband in my senior year of high school.. We NEVER thought things would progress this far in 4yrs and 3months specially with the fights we've had..
Ive dated some real losers. My husband always jokes that he doesnt know why I was interested in him bc he wasnt my type....uhhh exactly! My type were idiots and that needed to change
@Taytay, yup, i actually feel really low when i let myself think about them for too long, my self esteem musta been soo bad to have gone for guys like that, Im actually embarrassed that I ever went with a couple of my exes, they were seriously so wrong! Lol
@joshneviesmum yeah that's what my problem is I think. My self esteem isn't where it should be.but I'm working on it so going forward I won't make the same mistake. All my exes r the same person they just have different faces.
@taytay Wow, You just hit the nail right on the head girl. I knew it, but never thought of it that way before, but ALL of my exes were one guy too. And he wasnt a good guy. I think my self esteem issues go waaay back into my childhood, but stupidly, I rebelled in my teens, and mistook sex for love, and put up with WAY too much crap, seriously, your skin would crawl if i told you some of the things my exes had done, and I let them! Its great that youve realised that you were in a destructive pattern though, thats the first step to breaking the chain :-)
@joshneviesmum yeah I allowed my child's father to get away with way too much. I'm working on getting back to me now. It's like I forgot who I was n I never wanna go through that again. My self esteem issues go back from childhood as well.
@taytay I know exactly what you mean. Im working hard on myself too, its not always easy but at least we 'know' that theres work to do, which has gotta be good xx
Sometimes I wish I run into them so they can see how good I am doing and how I look after baby and how happy healthy and sweet my baby is! I guess I just want to show them what they don't have lol is that bad?
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@blessestxmom aw...I'm still waiting on my true love
@luvmy5 lmbo I think I was drunk
@joshneviesmum omg I cringe all the time. I seriously must have been looney when I was dating some my exes....yucky lol