idk what to do about all this...

edited June 2012 in Pregnant
so i have no clue what to do about my family. my husband and i have desided to move down south ( tennisiee/kuntuckey ariea) to stay with his family for a little and get our own place, rent is soo much cheaper and thear are a lot more jobs then up here in michigan wear we are liveing. but my family is freeking out on me about it, acting like i have stabed them in the back or somthing. now they have never given two sh*t's about us before so i dont know what the deal is. anyone have any advice??

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  • Do what you want/need to do chick. Thats the good thing about family, they usually have no choice but to get over it in time lol
  • @acw104 your main priority is your family and you have to do whats best for them and if that means moving its a must. Your family is mad because they are thinking about how they feel and not considering what this could mean for you guys.
  • @Sjmomof3 ya thinking about it i can see that they are.

    i gess it just bothers me becouse they all think that we can make it up here, but hell we have ben trying for the past year and it has gottin us no wear at all. i know they will miss my daughter but im trying to do whats best for her and the child i have on the way.
    i just wish they would support me in somthing for once in my life.
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  • @acw104 I understand. I live in a suburb out of Chicago and its really expensive her too. Our gas prices alone are highest in the country. If we could move I would definitely do it too. Its sucks because my husband has decent job but we are barely make it as well. Its paycheck to paycheck. We are not rich and we are not poor but stuck in the middle were we can't get help. If you have the option and extra cash to do it, I'd definitly go for it. Your family will get over it eventually.
  • I'm sorry you're family isn't being supportive, but you know what's best for your family! I live in Tennessee, we will welcome you. :)
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