cant stop crying..
My and my bf got into a fight. He came home at 230 am, and asked me to turn my alarm on cuz he had work. So I asked what time. And he was like, why are you mad?! And I simply told him, because you came home at 230 in the morning and I know you wernt working, and you didnt answer my texts. And he got all defensive and we argued a little bit more and he finally got up, got dressed and left. (Mind you he's been drinking) (and I know he shouldbt of been driving) so we continued to figh, and he said he didn't want to be with me anymore because he's unhappy, and 'I dont make him smile'
Wahoo... I'm the one who crys almost every night because he works a lot, granted he's doing it for money. But I'm not use to never seeing him, I'm use to being with him pretty much everyday. It's hard to adjust. And I told him, how could you walk out on ur son? And that your supost to put family first, and by him not doing that its causing the strain on our relationship. He said he walked out on ME not our son. uhhhh NO, his daddy won't be there when he wakes up.
So now at almost 4 in the morning, we've stopped yelling at eachother, and I asked if we could talk tomorrow, not yell. And he said, maybe.. idk what I want to do yet.
Idk what ill do if I lose him again, we've been together for 3 years.. I really don't want to have to raise my son alone.. and I don't want him to have a broken home... I guess ill know more after we talk.. :'-(
Wahoo... I'm the one who crys almost every night because he works a lot, granted he's doing it for money. But I'm not use to never seeing him, I'm use to being with him pretty much everyday. It's hard to adjust. And I told him, how could you walk out on ur son? And that your supost to put family first, and by him not doing that its causing the strain on our relationship. He said he walked out on ME not our son. uhhhh NO, his daddy won't be there when he wakes up.
So now at almost 4 in the morning, we've stopped yelling at eachother, and I asked if we could talk tomorrow, not yell. And he said, maybe.. idk what I want to do yet.
Idk what ill do if I lose him again, we've been together for 3 years.. I really don't want to have to raise my son alone.. and I don't want him to have a broken home... I guess ill know more after we talk.. :'-(
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I'm so scared of loosing him again. I dont think I can go through that again.. :'-(
When their in their defensively angry or quiet and too themselves, its best to leave them alone or believe me it'll tear up our emotions more.
Ive been through this exactly same thing and over stressed myself have even cried my eyes out over things that turned out not to be that bad.
Communication is the key hun..
@AishaMusa
@trixiesmom8
@Jess510
@cheryl74
I never thought I'd be this girl. Practically begging her bf not to leave me and his family. But idk what to do. I wanna give him space but I'm afraid he's gunna start talking to his old friends, who are girls just to spite me. I don't think I can handle loosing my family again..
Unfortunately I think you may end up losing him one way or another because it seems if you try it just seems like nagging to him and if you don't then be will go either way.
Personally I would go with a good hard kick to the nuts and tell him to grow the f up.
Sorry if not much help my mind isn't here today.
Then we came home and he said he was going out for a little. So about 2 hrs later I asked if we could meet n talk. So we talked and basically, he's stressed and doesn't want to fight anymore. And he's upset about living with my parents again. and he misses living on his own. but hrs not the only one stressed, u know its not easy staying home with a 1 year old everyday. Also he's been distant (sex wise) because I want another baby. And he doesnt. But I am on the pill. Granted I forget to take it sometimes but still.
So as of now he's staying home tonight, and my parents want to talk to him tomorrow.
@MommyLovesSparkle
@dadof2n1togo
@starrxoxo9
Good luck.
No excuses though he needs to sort his ppriorities out.