this was a vent of mine and it has turned into a financial advice post :)
The last 3 months we have been behind on bills. I just don't understand why we are. We have no extra bills that need to be paid.
So today he comes home in a cranky ass mood. He knocked over his beer and it fell in a place that doesnt get cleaned as much as everything else. So he's cleaning his mess and just complaining that the house is discussing. I pop off and say he can say anything cuz he does not clean at all. His dumbass says he shouldnt have to clean cuz he bust his ass at work. I ignored it. Later i ask for his bank card so i can pay off the rest off the electric. Which was my money from my check that he deposited yesterday. After i tell him how much i paid he gets mad at me..
I just dnt understand why he is so mad. Yes he works his ass off but if you are working ur ss off then why arnt our bills paid?
I work aswell but not even close to the hours he does and with out $500 eletric bill i paid it all but $100 he paid it that much off it.
I guess my whole thing is if you dont want to f-ing clean then make sure our bills our paid.
Sorry for this long vent i just have nobody to b***h to.
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All my problems have been fixed. So just ignore my vent but i want to keep this going for anybody needing advice on finances.
@YNVTish said she could give awesome advice on this subject
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So today he comes home in a cranky ass mood. He knocked over his beer and it fell in a place that doesnt get cleaned as much as everything else. So he's cleaning his mess and just complaining that the house is discussing. I pop off and say he can say anything cuz he does not clean at all. His dumbass says he shouldnt have to clean cuz he bust his ass at work. I ignored it. Later i ask for his bank card so i can pay off the rest off the electric. Which was my money from my check that he deposited yesterday. After i tell him how much i paid he gets mad at me..
I just dnt understand why he is so mad. Yes he works his ass off but if you are working ur ss off then why arnt our bills paid?
I work aswell but not even close to the hours he does and with out $500 eletric bill i paid it all but $100 he paid it that much off it.
I guess my whole thing is if you dont want to f-ing clean then make sure our bills our paid.
Sorry for this long vent i just have nobody to b***h to.
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All my problems have been fixed. So just ignore my vent but i want to keep this going for anybody needing advice on finances.
@YNVTish said she could give awesome advice on this subject
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