Hello....

Fate

One year ago, I was cheated on by my husband. Most of you know this.. I have been doing some soul searching, as the one year "anniversary" of the cheating drew near. The day was July 14th, 2011. I knew I would have trouble dealing with the "anniversary" and tried my hardest not to draw attention to my obvious sadness. I distanced myself from my children, friends, family and my husband for the day. I felt the same emotions wash over me that I felt on that fateful day last year. As I thought more and more about it, I started wondering things.. Why do couples cheat on their partner? As I stepped on Pregly for advice about my feet swelling, I couldn't help but notice the threads of possible cheaters, and one about falling in love again. I hit google and came across two articles that I think might give us some hope/understanding about a cheater, whether male or female. It certainly opened my eyes a bit. Just remember, you're beautiful, and it isn't your fault.

5 Things You Didn't Know About Cheating
http://m.askmen.com/entertainment/special_feature_300/369_cheating-5-things-you-didnt-know.html

Why Men Cheat In The Summer Months
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/_mobile/sex-love/relationship-advice/why-guys-cheat-in-the-summer-0808

heyitsme

Hmm can't access those links my phone is being dumb. what does it say about why they cheat in the summer?

RTMommy

*hugs* hope you're cheering up, some. things have gotten better between you guys, and that's the happy part to celebrate, right? it's hard not to look back, but i try not to think about mine and hubby's separation, because things are good now. xoxo

captivated

July 14 is my birthday. I'm sorry you had such a rough day. I loved the articles. Interesting about the summer! Thank you for posting!

My2Boys

You're now working on the relationship and that is what counts. Hopefully as time goes on it will get easier. Did your husband remember or say anything about it?