WORRIED...CONFUSED....PRAYING...HELP!!!!!

triciasworld

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME....
JUNE 18.. I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT. JULY 1 I WAS HAVING SOME PAIN SO I WENT TO THE ER THEY DID A PELVIC EXAM AND AN ULTRASOUND EVERYTHING CAME BACK FINE/GOOD.THIS MORNING I NOTICE SOME SPOTTING ONLY WHEN I WIPED. CAME HOME FROM WORK AND STARTED BLEEDING ...ENOUGH TO FILL A PANTY LINER.WENT TO THE ER THE DID A PELVIC EXAM WHICH WENT WELL.MY HCG LEVEL IS STILL HIGH.BUT MY BLOOD SAMPLES CAME BACK SHOWING IM ANEMIC. THE ULTRASOUND THEY DID TODAY LOOKS SIMILAR TO THE ONE THEY DID 3WEEKS AGO AND BEING THAT IM 8 WEEKS HE WAS HOPING TO SEE SOMETHING THAT LOOKS MORE LIKE A FETUS. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO..IM AND EMOTIONAL/NERVOUS WRECK. WHAT CAN BE GOING ON???? HE SAID THERE'S A SLIGHT CHANCE I MIGHT MISCARRY (((( IM PRAYING BY MY NEXT APPOINTMENT MY LIL MUFFIN WOULD MAKE HIS OR HER APPEARANCE AND EVERYTHING WOULD BE FINE!!!

Aubreysmommy

I will be praying for you hun. But at 5 weeks they kinda look like little fish at 8 weeks still like that but growing little arm and leg buds they don't look like a little baby until week 9 to 10 still small and curled up but more fetal looking as long as the hb was good baby will be okay I had cramping due to stress my first tri and I am 30 weeks 4 days with a little girl :-)

I was told I had a slight chance as well but just take it easy keep your feet up and drink plenty of water its imporrtant do do in pregnancy and don't stress because baby can feel it

ashley_smashley

I will be sending you good vibes! I recently didn't have a good experience lately like this...I hope the same doesn't happen to you.

triciasworld

THANK YOU...I WASN'T ABLE TO SEE THE ULTRASOUND DUE TO ER BEING BUSY.SO IDK HOW IT LOOKED.THE FIRST TIME I WENT THERE WASN'T A HEARTBEAT...AND THEY DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT HEARING ONE..THAT'S WHY I'M SOOOOO WORRIED.I HAVE MILD CRAMPING ON THE LEFT SIDE AND A LIL BACK PAIN. IS THAT NORMAL.IM SORRY IF IM ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS THIS IS MY FIRST PREGNANCY

blessedtimes2

I will keep you in my prayers!

ashley_smashley

Are you still bleeding? Is it bright red?

triciasworld

THANKS EVERYONE FOR THE PRAYERS!!!
I TRULY CAN USE THEM ALL @ASHLEY_SMASHLEY ...I LOOKS LIKE IM ABOUT TO START MY PERIOD ...WITH TINY LIL BLOOD CLOTS

ashley_smashley

Yeah....Hunny....that's probably not good. I am sorry I will send lots of good vibes! I hope I am wrong!

Wilsomom

That's what happened to me last week too. I'm sorry, I hope it's nothing, praying for you! When do you get checked again?

trixiesmom8

Awe girl I'm sorry but it does sound like you are having a miscarriage. That's how my mc started. Like @aubreysmommy said rest lots and drink tons of water and try not to stress too much cause that causes stress on babe too.

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triciasworld

I'M WAITING ON MY APPROVAL FROM MEDICAID ...BUT AS SOON AS I GET OFF IM GOING TO GO DOWN THERE EXPLAIN THE SITUATION TO AND DEMAND TO KNOW SOMETHING THEN IM GOING TO BE AN EMERGENCY WALKI-IN AT THE DRS OFFICE

Aubreysmommy

Planed parent hood can do a ultrasound and free clinics like that can do ultrasounds to check on baby as well

captivated

Yes hun it doesnt sound good. I have had many miscarriages and this is identical. They would have seen a heartbeat on the ultrasound at this point. Your levels can be high, but unless you have consecutive beta levels two days from each other, it doesn't mean anything. I'm sorry hon. Prayers.

triciasworld

WOULD THE BLEEDING BE ON GOING??? CAUSE I ONLY SEE IT WHEN I WIPE...AND ITS MORE BROWNISH RED

trixiesmom8

I say yes..at least mine was. Mine started out being a little bit and then got heavier. Have you had sex recently? Maybe your cervix is irritated? I also had placenta pervera which is where(at least mine was) really low and was rubbing against the cervix which caused me to bleed till it moved up around 14 weeks. So maybe its that? I can't remember if I had tiny clots with it tho.

@homebirthadvocate @captivated @wilsomom @ashley_smashley @aubreysmommy since she didn't tag you ladies I thought I would do it for her.

captivated

The bleeding isn't the only worrisome thing. It's the ultrasound as well. If you are miscarrying, you could spot for days or weeks before actually passing everything or the miscarriage officially "starting". This is what happened with my last. I spotted when I wiped for weeks even though the pregnancy was already determined non viable. I finally went for a D&C (the second one because the first did not work) and thank god I did because if I hadn't gotten pregnant and lost it, I would not have also been diagnosed with cancer. I truly believe there is a reason for everything hun. I do not think your pregnancy will continue, but miracles DO happen every day. Try to stay positive, expect the worst and hope for the best.

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Wilsomom

Please let us know as soon as you find out anything or if the bleeding gets worse. Praying for you!

ashley_smashley

Yes, how are you doing?

triciasworld

HEY LADIES!!!! I DID HAD A MISCARRIAGE ..LAST NIGHT/ EARLY THIS WAS THE WORST DAY OF MY LIFE. THE PAIN WAS CRUCIAL AND SEEING EVERYTHING GONNA DAMAGE ME FOR LIFE.ME IN GENERAL IM FINE PHYSICALLY ..EMOTIONALLY IM A WRECK.BUT I DO BELIEVE GOD HAS A PLAN AND PURPOSE FOR EVERYTHING HE DO.SO EVEN THOUGH IM HURTING AND IN PAIN IM NOT GOING TO QUESTION GOD. THANK YOU ALL FOR THE PRAYERS AND CONCERNS ...LUV YOU ALLLLLLLLLLL

devins_mommy

i so sorry girl. :-(

angel26

Im sorry.

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Roxy

Hopping u feel better

ashley_smashley

I am sorry Hunny. I am going thru that right now, if you need to chat please message me!

triciasworld

STILL HAVING CRAMPS(MILD) BUT INTENSE BACK PAIN..WHY????? AND HOW LONG WOULD THIS LAST:'( IM AT THE END..PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, AND EMOTIONALLY ...DONT KNOW HOW MUCH MORE I CAN TAKE

Wilsomom

Have you gone to the dr? You may still have some tissue inside you. I'm sorry (((hugs)))
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triciasworld

WHEN I WENT LAST FRIDAY HE SAID EVERYTHING WAS OUT...THE ULTRASOUND SHOWED A LITTLE BLOOD LEFT. BUT I'VE BEEN BLEEDING HEAVY W/ TINY CLOTS ...CRAMPING AND BACK PAINS..BUT THIS EVENING I PASSED 3 BIG CLOTS.IDK WHAT'S GOING ON

Wilsomom

I think clots are normal as long as they're not bigger than a quarter or so. I would call your doc in the morning & talk to a nurse. My ultrasound said I was clear too, but I did pass a little more tissue & clots a few days later so they might not pick up everything. Sorry you're going through this.

Wilsomom

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