Ugh Pushy people in life..
My daughter isn;t even born yet and i have people telling me what i should do with her.. Like the last name thing why is it so hard to get that NO she will not have her fathers last name and No i not Formula feeding because i want that closeness of breastfeeding and if BF does not work out for whatever reason then i will go to formula but i am not gonna throw in the towel before i even try because it's " to hard"
And trying to invite themselves in to the delivery... Hell no it's all about my daughter that day and i only wanna share it with close family. Not people who feel like the deserve to be there! Or try to invite themselves to my house when i come home!
I feel like i am going mad! x..x
another thing that people need to stop is "diapers are expensive are you sure you can afford all of them?" No duh diapers are expensive but I have found it more cost effective per diaper to by in bulk than the little packets that have 20-24 in them at a time. And people are trying to push me in to what time of schooling i should give her...
SHE IS NOT EVEN BORN YET -...- I went to public school and i turned out just fine.
Region is a big thing getting pushed on me right know as well. Just because i don't go to church doesn't mean you should condemn me or tell me my baby will burn. I seriously am about to start sparta kicking people. You can teach kids about religion outside of church. I don't go to church because last time i did i was judged for being unwed and expecting.
I guess Welcome to parenthood. I have a feeling that this will not stop. People should be more worried about their own kids raising then telling me how i should raise mine -.-
If i want advice i will ask for it but until then people need to just stop. I am a new mom not a complete idiot. And I know new moms make mistakes and all that but I want to do it on my own and experince it all the good bad and the awesome.
If i mess up I know she will still love me and i got my mom to help me out.
Sorry for such a long vent but i had this all clawing at my brain and i needed to express it !
And trying to invite themselves in to the delivery... Hell no it's all about my daughter that day and i only wanna share it with close family. Not people who feel like the deserve to be there! Or try to invite themselves to my house when i come home!
I feel like i am going mad! x..x
another thing that people need to stop is "diapers are expensive are you sure you can afford all of them?" No duh diapers are expensive but I have found it more cost effective per diaper to by in bulk than the little packets that have 20-24 in them at a time. And people are trying to push me in to what time of schooling i should give her...
SHE IS NOT EVEN BORN YET -...- I went to public school and i turned out just fine.
Region is a big thing getting pushed on me right know as well. Just because i don't go to church doesn't mean you should condemn me or tell me my baby will burn. I seriously am about to start sparta kicking people. You can teach kids about religion outside of church. I don't go to church because last time i did i was judged for being unwed and expecting.
I guess Welcome to parenthood. I have a feeling that this will not stop. People should be more worried about their own kids raising then telling me how i should raise mine -.-
If i want advice i will ask for it but until then people need to just stop. I am a new mom not a complete idiot. And I know new moms make mistakes and all that but I want to do it on my own and experince it all the good bad and the awesome.
If i mess up I know she will still love me and i got my mom to help me out.
Sorry for such a long vent but i had this all clawing at my brain and i needed to express it !
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Good for you for standing your ground! Good luck.