FB friends...what u think?

edited August 2012 in Pregnant
Just noticed my husband and my step daughters mom (his ex) became friends on facebook, dont think i like her knowing parts of out lives more than she has to...os it too crazy if I ask him to delete her or ill delete him from my fb

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  • Not if you have privacy settings set up. Yes it is...we areis amicable but i like to keep my distance and not involve so much with her cause she has her crazy days
  • I keep everything private. Only friends can see anything and even then, sometimes I specify which friends can see what.

    I have many friends that divorced, on good terms now and facebook friends. I don't see an issue with it. They are going to be in each others lives forever. He is with you, not her. No reason her being his friend on fb would have anything to so with your page.
  • If you aren't ok with it then tell him to delete her, I wouldn't want my husband to have any of his ex girlfriends on his facebook.. but since they have a daughter together maybe that's just another way to communicate
  • I think its ok. My bfs ex was on his, but she keeps deleting him cause she's fn crazy
  • I find it strange to tell your significant other what to do in regards to that. And crossing the line. If my fiance ever told me to delete someone, I'd tell him to stop being insecure and go kick rocks!

    You could just politely tell him you are uncomfortable and take it from there. Telling him straight to delete her will put him on the defenive and cause unnecessary problems!, imo :)
  • I would say it depends on the whole situation. For example, I'm friends on fb with my ex, his new wife & his entire extended family, so is my hubby lol. But if it were 10 years ago that would've been an entirely different sticky situation. Lol I would just be honest with him without getting him on the defensive like @captivated said. Hopefully he will understand. Use lots of "I feel" statements instead of "you should/n't" statements.
  • Good point ladies its not a big deal but as soon as she gets crazy shes out
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