My husband punched me in the ribs.....UPDATE

babiescomin2011

We got in an argument last night and in the middle of it he picks up my 11 month old son and continues screaming at my. Bentley was screaming and terrified. I was trying to get him and my husband punched me,and now I have two cracked ribs. For those of u that don't know,I've been struggling with a pain pill addiction. I don't know how much more I can take. If it wasn't for my son I would kill myself. I hate life,I'm 22 and I've been through more than moat have in a lifetime. I'm crying writing this. I can't take any more.

sands3

Omg girl, I'm so sorry! Did you press charges on him?

babiescomin2011

@sands3 no,this will be the third time we've been in trouble with the cops. And I'm scared my son is gona get taken from me when I didn't even do anything

babiescomin2011

@mom2ING me too. How can we do that?

sands3

I'm sorry. Do you have anyone you and your baby can stay with for awhile?

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1stWoodsBaby

Im sorry that happened! I agree with sands3. Can you and Bentley stay with someone else for a little bit?

LeviLuv8

It will never end if you stay. I'm so sorry this is happening tho. The more stuff like this that bentley witnesses the worse his childhood and even his adult life will be. He still see it happen and treat his gfs or wife the same way and you don't want that! Gl hun

Ourlittlenugget

Please get out. Go to a shelter if you don't have family nearby. There are resources to help you and keep you both safe. There's absolutely no excuse for that kind of treatment, and you can't set that example for your son. =((

mommyof3girls

Well, u need to get away because not only r u pitting ur self in danger u are putting ur son in danger as well. Why stay w someone who hits u? I cant think of any good reason. There r organization out there to help u.

RaylansMommy1

A friend of mine is pregnant and out of no where her bd starting beating on her the best thing to so is go to a women's shelter or look for low income apartments and def file a restraining order u need to get away b4 it gets u killed or seriously hurt think of ur babys best interest

Fate

I know none of us can convince you, as sometimes the good times outweigh the bad, but try to get him some help or get out of there!

cheryl74

Hunny, I know your scared and you Probs love him, but.... Next time it could be your baby, or worse he could kill you. Sorry to be blunt but a friend of mine died at the hands if her abusive c#@t of a husband. Report him and get the hell outta there. Your young and you have your whole life ahead of you xxx

mommimisha

As a victim of domestic violence... I say call the police and report it... No man should put his hands on a woman for whatever reason... You don't deserve that at all... If anything he she have the utmost respect for you because you carried his child!!! I'm sorry you are going through this and I wish I could give you a hug.. Believe it or not things can get better... I'll be praying for you!!! >:D<

caroline8_p

I second that! I was also abused by an ex, I eventually got balls and moved out! I wish I had turned him in.

mommimisha

@caroline8_p me too! I feel so dumb not turning him in... I didn't want to ruin his career ... I should probably be dead by now or really hurt... He pulled a gun on me and I ran like a bat outta hell... Im so glad I got out of that relationship which is why I'm so worried about @babiescomin2011 I've been thinking about her all day.. It's hard to leave I totally understand that because I didn't leave the first second or third time.. Not even when he pulled the gun on me... I left when I caught him cheating red handed... Sad that's what it had to take to leave ... I just hope she realizes this is dangerous and he's not what she needs!

babiescomin2011

@mommimisha thank you so much for caring. Thank all of u. I'm thinking about getting a plane ticket and leaving while he's at work and going to my aunts in NY.

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mommimisha

That is a very good idea! Always better safe than sorry... Do like what @mama_kat said and don't leave any traces to where he can figure out where you are at... I'd also file a report where you are now as well so he doesn't call the police and say you both are missing...

RedShadoe0

Is it medically documented too or no? I'm so very very glad to hear that you're leaving.... and I think its awesome that its out of state. As someone who has been abused in the past, it breaks my heart when girls don't leave... When they think they can change the guy or make excuses for him. Be VERY proud that you're strong enough to stand up and say enough is enough

caroline8_p

Where in ny? I'm sure your aunt will welcome you with open arms especially under the circumstance.

trixiesmom8

Update? Hope you are doing ok!

nameless

?? Hope you are ok!!

babiescomin2011

I'm ok,Allen agreed to go to anger management. His first session is Friday. I'm giving him a chance to change. Well see how this goes.....

1stWoodsBaby

Glad to hear from you.. I hope his treatments work!

babiescomin2011

@1stwoodsbaby thank u. I hope so to. This is his only option to stay with me. I have to be smart about this for my son

1stWoodsBaby

Agreed, you sure do. Him willing to go is a step in the right direction.

sands3

I'm glad he's getting some help!

Ourlittlenugget

Good! Stay strong, Mama!