would u feel insulted?UPDATE!

MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
edited October 2012 in Relationships
its not often dh & i have sex.maybe once a week if that.last night i was actually in the mood so we did it and it was great.he couldn't even contain himself noise wise when it came to releasing.after i lay down & he goes to eat dinner..not even an hour later i go to get a cigarette and hes in front of the tv masturbating to a porno.that made me feel like shit like i wasn't good enough.he hurries n turns it off and i told him i saw him.he tries to tell me if he tried to go for round 2 on me id say im too tired im just like whatever so he turns it around on me to spare his embarrassment..am i wrpng to feel upset?

tonight he buys more bc cuz we used our last one & wants to do the hippity dippity BUT....im a boring sexual partner.
whatever it hasnt always been this way but how can i enjoy a physical relationship with him when our mental/emotional relationship is a mess???

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  • pregoagainYAYpregoagainYAY
    I personally would be....I cant stand when they turn it around to make us look like the jerks
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    @mom2ing im completely ok with porn,id rather it be porn then another woman especially me not always being in the in the mood,it just hurt my confidence

    @pregoagainyay yea he does that a lot and if he dont have shit on me he brings the past up
  • pregoagainYAYpregoagainYAY
    Im sorry sweets its not fair.....I will never understand a mans way of thinking......probably because it never makes sense lol
  • 1stWoodsBaby1stWoodsBaby
    Im ok with porn, but still.. right afterwards?? That'd probably hurt my feelings a little too.
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    @1stwoodsbaby yeah & then he turns it around on me like its my fault!
    on a brighter note hows baby troy doing?
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  • Janet_2011Janet_2011
    edited October 2012
    I would be pissed off, im ok with him watching porn as long as is with me.. plus masturbating to it is a big no no, he has me and im always in the mood for sex so he doesnt need to be touching him self to porn.
  • RTMommyRTMommy
    I guess it depends on how you choose to look at it. I don't agree with how he turned it around on you, first off. But maybe you could take it as a compliment that you got him going so good that he had to go for round two. But I'd also have told him he was dumb not to try anything with you first, because he might have gotten the real thing. ;)
  • julesjules
    I would be but we don't do any kind of porn around here. But I think the fact that it was right after would bother me.
  • angie87angie87
    I don't mind the porn but right after yes that would piss me off and hurt my feelings
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    I would have been furious. I don't really mind porn. I would prefer we have sex but I understand that sometimes I can't be around at the right time to scratch that itch. But there are appropriate times and places and right after is not one odds them
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    update at top
  • Steph_Due_101611Steph_Due_101611
    Imagine hes someone famous you find sexually attractive. Lol
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    @ Steph_Due_101611 lol ive done that before..thing is i am sexually attracted to him its his attitude
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    @steph_Due_101611
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  • 1stWoodsBaby1stWoodsBaby
    Girl I'm right there with you. We have no physical relationship because our emotional relationship is horrible. Did he say you were a boring partner???
    Also, just saw your comment from earlier.. Troy is doing great! Thank you!
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    @mom2ing hes clueless! i just recently started voicing my feelings but still have so much bottled up.i feel as if he knows but ignores it cuz hes scared of separation

    @1stwoodsbaby that's exactly what he said.ive followed ur posts and our situations arent too different.im a sahm and if i wasn't so dependent on him right now id be gone
  • 1stWoodsBaby1stWoodsBaby
    Wow! I can't believe he'd actually say that. I'm sorry he said that. Men are so insensitive. Any chance you guys can get things worked out so all the different aspects of the relationship are better?
  • CristinaLynnCristinaLynn
    Oh no...my ex did this to me all the time. It made me want to throw every piece of electronic out of the damn window! We're divorced!
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    @1stwoodsbaby id like to but partof me feels its too late i just don't care no more its been 8 yrs countless talks,and little change.
  • MyBamBina28MyBamBina28
    @cristinalynn im sorry.id really like things to work out for the babys sake but i know thats not a reason to stay.i cant say hes entirely at fault because im guilty of disrespect to but i feel like hes pushed me to the point of bringing the worst out of me.i literally gad a breakdown a few weeks ago,i said cruel things,in front of my daughter.something im ashamed of cyz i always swore i wouldn't lose it in front of her,i truly feel that was my breaking point and just stopped caring about me and him.ive kept so much bottled up and just recently opened up on pregly about our problems i feel like if i dont talk about it ill have another meltdown.
    @1stwoodsbaby
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