why are husbands so mean?

RaylansMommy1

My husband keeps picking on the way I walk, keep on mind I am 2 weeks from my due date, and makes smart remarks about my weight. It hurts my feelings

EricaK22

Id tell him to go f*ck himself! My bf would say "wow babe you've gotten bigger" around 37 weeks..id give him the finger..lol

sands3

I'm 11 months pp and my husband always grabs my tummy fat. I don't think he realizes it makes me feel horrible cuz that's the only place I can't lose all the weight.

second_time_mommy7

Have you tried talking to him about it? Does he know it hurts your feelings?

RTMommy

Just tell him to suck it. That's what I do when my hubby makes fun...but I also tease him back. haha

jules

I would bring it up I don't think his wanting to hurt your feelings. Sounds like his just having fun with you and probably thinks it's cute .

MrsStanley_x2

Mine grabbed my hip/side chub while I was breastfeeding my newborn and says "your handles of love are my favorite. So snuggly!" As he pinched them. He remembers nothing. Only reason he's still alive. Lol

RaylansMommy1

I just hate it and I have told him time after time tht it hurts my feelings but he keeps doing it, I can't help the way I am of he would quit knocking me up then o wouldn't be tht way.

Janet_2011

Ha my husband used to say i looked like a penguin when i walked because i had a wabble going hahaahaha i never took it as mean, i used to laugh at my self for how hilarious i looked walking.

Máthair

I'd make a snide remark about how " at least one of you has something that's a large size and you can change your size." Then just walk away.

But then I'm a real b*t*h and if hubby said something like that to me he would be big time in the dog house.

SalasMommy

=/ is he teasimg you or is he beimg serious. Im not sensitive at all but my hubby doesnt play with me like that. If he is doing it in mean way I would say something really mean back but maybe hes just saying it in acute way

CristinaLynn

Tell him "well if I could suck the fat out of my fat ass and put it towards making your dick bigger then maybe we would both be happy...but I guess not everybody gets what they want huh?" He'll stfu real quick ;-)