I think something weird is going on with my bf and i want to look up some of the random numbers he has been calling.. does anybody know any free apps or websites to look up phone numbers for free??
www.reversephonedirectory.com is a pretty good site. If its a cell phone it might not work though. I'd press *67 and just call the number and see who answers then hang up. I'm crazy like that though lol.
@Mrs4c.. idk sometimes i think its best with woman to go with their gut and not withold doing something because "its not trusting their partner" because a couple years ago when my intuition was telling me something was not right and weird, i decided to ask him and accept what ever his response was and give him the benefit of the doubt. But then after about 8 months i couldnt handle it anymore so i looked at his phone and he had been talking to his ex, so naturally i thought ok he is cheating, and when i called him and told him i knew and i didnt want to be with him, thats when the confession that he had been talking to her cause she was cashing his checks for him right when he would get off work (he didnt have a bank acct) because he was extremely addicted to pills and was spending hundreds a week.. so sometimes it best to follow intuition because he is no longer a drug addict..
I think you're looking for an answer to whatever his problem is... You know what they say when you go looking for trouble you find it, even if it really isn't there.. Sound like from all your posts that you're not happy with your realationship and now you wants for answers.. if you're not happy just leave... I'm not trying to be rude or mean. I just feel that you are looking a reason to leave.. Imo
@Starlilly i just dont want to be in a relationship that has no intimacy what so ever, that is called a friendship. I think i am looking for an answer because there should be one. You cant just go from wanting sex and intimacy to toally not without a reason, and it ha nothing to do with me not being happy in the relationship, nobody would be happen if something changed drastically for months and you didnt know why. I have tried to talk to him a few times about it and its not like he is just quiet and doesnt say much, he completely acts like everything is fine and we are just stressed and its no big deal and he loves me and does not want to break up. So its like what do you do? Just contine on and just tell yourself you are just looking for something? Idk i feel confused!
I can say from my experience, that I get just like that from time to time.. When there is nothing wrong with me, just stressed.. Where I just want to be left a lone.. It's very selffish, but it does happen.. Maybe he is feeling like that.. I'm not him so I cant say.. But you're no one wants to be in a one sided realationship, but sometimes you have to work thru those times.. If he is up to something I'm truly sorry.. I would just tell him how you're feeling, and that you want a realationship, not a roommate.. That he has to remember that he has to think about your feelings too.. Him shutting down on you is taking a toll on your realationship.. Best of luck to you..
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