so scared.... sorry long

lilloulou

Well I have hit my 20 week mark and I'm told I should feel baby move alot more by now but my first ultra sound showed healthy baby moving but week later couldn't find heartbeat then 4 weeks latercould narky hear heartbeat I go in Monday for the gender us but scared cause I don't feel lil babe move as much as my first except when I feel full I'm so nervous now to Scouse my niece who is a month behind me found out she has cervical cancer and is being told this will be her only baby she is barley 20 plus a few cousins have had it in my family so in so nervous and thinking the worst of this pregnancy plus my daughter is so mean she climbs over me and hits me and kicks me in the belly and I try to be careful cuz I'm RH negative she is only 16 months and I know she fully don't understand I just don't know what to do...

littlenat86

If you are concerned the baby isn't moving enough you need to go in to the hospital so they can check it out!
How old is your daughter? If she hits you, you should take her off you and set her down on the floor with a firm no. It needs to be very consistent to work. She will need lots of cuddles and reassurance too, maybe get her a baby doll to 'practise' on, a book about a new baby that you can read with her?
Sorry to hear about your cousin too, what terrible news.
I hope everything works out hun x

lilloulou

@littlenat86 I do with her all the time she just turned 16 months like right nowI can faintly feel the baby and from what people keep telling me I should feel more movement then with my first but I didn't start feeling it with her till I was 6-7 months

littlenat86

Sometimes its the way baby is lay, and also the position of the placenta will have an impact on the movements you feel. You should definitely speak to your doctor about your concerns so then can put your mind at rest. All this worrying does you and baby no good! X

lilloulou

Honestly I hate my Dr the first day.I met her she told me to loose some weight and she told me a certain Dr might have to deliver if she is unable to ànd I refused him this time and last with my daughter he ud mean and don't like big girls he told.me after I had my 1st that maybe I should have anymore. Wish I could just switch and I can see it now she is gonna tell me its cuz I'm big and that I should be following there diet to a tee but I feel baby moving alot tonight just nit lately maybe it is just the position I usually feel it in towards my back and left side...thank u for the advice I will talk with her first thing Monday morning

Starlilly

I'm also 20 weeks and don't feel baby move as much.. This is number 5 for me so it is unusual for me not to feel him move. But this pregnancy is different than my others. I'm not showing and measure on the small side, but baby is measuring perfect... It's just the way everything is position! So try not to worry!