done with my grandparents
So my daughter's first bday party is Saturday. I only invited a few people(36) lol so only like my parents(my dad, my stepmom, and mom) my grandparents(all sides) and a few close friends and family. Well my mom's parents called today, saying they aren't coming. They are down in FL with my aunt and uncle, we are in OH. They are coming home for thanksgiving, but can't come home two weeks earlier! They mentioned this is how its going to be every year. So I am done trying! They have seen her maybe 6x since she's been born. I give up, if they don't want to know their only great grandchild then its their fault not mine!
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@mommylovessparkle wow! That's sad. How could you not want to spend that time with your grandchild?!
@0811 I just don't get how they don't want to be a part of her life?! They also wonder why she doesn't want to go to them when they actually do see her..and I'm like duh! You are NEVER around.
Im an outsider looking in. Just go with the flow if they dont wanna make the extra effort tp see her then fine... but dont go out of yoir way to wtite them off.thats just putting more stress on you. Like you said she already has the other sets of GP so whenever these call or.whatever just be like when ever you wanna see her we will.be right here and.leave it as that.
If your relationship is or was close, which would take you to believe that they would want to be close to your kids, then i understand...
@my2boys its my mom's side of the family who I had a falling out with about 5yrs ago, when my mom made up a bunch of stuff about my fiance, so things haven't been great but I have been making an effort for my daughter. My mom(their daughter) has seen my lo maybe 10x throughout this year, and honestly I'm being generous when I say 10. So watching her child be a grandparent doesn't really go far in this situation.
@perly we were close while I was growing up, but now we aren't because my mom has told them a bunch of lies over the last few years. It bothers me because they act like they are a huge part of her life and they aren't, obviously. It makes me sad/mad that since she is the first they aren't more involved since we were so close while I was growing up.