huge fight with my fiance about sex
I'm going to try to keep this as short as possible but ill start by saying that we have an almost 14 month old daughter and I'm 29 weeks prego with our second daughter. I've been complaining ab the QUALITY of our sex life since our daughter was born. The intimacy seems to have gone out the window and sex literally involves taking our clothes off an occasional kiss, hump hump for not even 5 mins and its over. I've tried to do things to change that, cute outfits, little hints etc but he doesn't seem to get it. Well it then went to where we basically co exist simply as parents and providers, we used to cuddle, watch movies play around etc, now we don't even sit on the same couch. I've been expressing that I don't feel that he's affectionate anymore and that I want to feel wanted by him etc, I've been saying this for MONTHS...so last night we are laying in bed and I lay my head on his chest and he immediately tries to take my panties off...ugh what a turn OFF! I told him I was tired and he proceeds to tell me he would just "take care of himself in the morning like he always does". I freaked, I've Bern begging for affection intimacy and to be desired sexually for months now!!! well no wonder he doesn't do any of that he 2 busy getting himself off. I told him that hurt, went out on the couch and cried myself to sleep. So hrs been at work all day and doesn't see why I'm so hurt. I know I'm pretty, I have great self esteem but seriously what woman wouldn't be hurt. I told him to try putting me in the mood rather then no foreplay no nothing bc there is nothing fun ab vanilla just stick it in sex. Sorry if its tmi but I'm really frustrated, take care of our daughter all day, clean house, cook dinner and work several nights a week doing hair (he does help with cooking and cleaning) and I'm prego!!
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I did that when things started getting boring .