i need help bad
Im a stay at home mom. my hunny works fours days out of the week. so he gets out of the house and social lies with people. I'm home all day doing the same thing every day. just me and my son untill daddy comes home from work. its like I miss him when he's gone but then ill start being a bitch I'm on my period and I'm even more evil on it. but I hate treating him so mean. he knows how to deal with me but one day I know he's gonna break he gets me mad my son is only 13 months he needs me to do every thing for him then when hunny comes home its like take my boots off serve me water do this do that like wtf u have hands its like he can't do nothing for him self I tell him but hell just look at me like if this is my duties it makes me feel bad but fuck when do I get a break I know he's tired but y doesn't he see that I'm tired too. like I'm I being selfish like is my job as a mother easy and I'm just being a beach like I'm getting frustrated I need in puts like how can things get better advice needed
BTW.... ladies do u do every thing for ur man????
BTW.... ladies do u do every thing for ur man????
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Sometimes i wonder if i've made him useless because he cannot find ANYTHING without me.
I really don't know what to say, because i have tried everything to get through him and he doesn't get it. I've sat down and had calm talks about it, i've cried about it to him, i've yelled at him about it... but i guess nothing gets through to him.
@ashley_smashley its the only way I wouldn't lose my mind
And I'll say "where its always been babe, in the closet in the laundry room" so he'll go, open the door and say "oh, umm its not here." It gets to me so bad, especially because i know its in there. So i have to stop doing what im doing to go find the damn broom.
He helps with stuff, he just cannot find things. He doesn't know how to look for anything. He expects things to come right to his hands.
@perly wonder y men do this
@Janet_2011 and were planning on baby # 2 scares me kinda if hes not helping now wonders how it well b later
@perly sounds like my friend thats how she caters to her husband and she has 3 kids i dnt know how she does it
@SalasMommy you sound like a gd wify lol
@ExcitedForOctober thats how i am too but i have slacked sense having my baby on cleaning but i do like every thing my way somethimes i expect my hubby to things my certain way which gets me upset when he dnt i think i have a proublem with that he does play with my son and i agree the 50/50 but what borthers me the most i want him to do hes own things at times dont get me wrong when i ask for stuff for me he does it but he ask all the time ughhhhhhhhhhhhhh
BTW I TELL HUBBY HAPPY WIFY MAKES A HAPPY HOME LOL
I've been out of work since Jun and I do everything for him. Now that being said when he was on unemployment he did everything while I worked. Now tho he does give me most Sundays to sleep in a little so that's my morning off I guess. But he works second shift gets home at midnight and then stays up til like 3 then sleeps til about a half hour before he goes to work. That we def need to work on.