what would you think if you saw this on the search history??
So my husband left to Vegas yesterday for two weeks for work. Both our jobs require us to travel time to time so I don't think anything of it. Last night I get on our computer to work on some homework...I find a search tab from LAS VEGAS CRAIGSLIST for casual encounters. I click on it and find that he has clicked on several that are "come gang bang my wife" "looking for a hung man to join me and my wife" blah blah. At least 10 of them are clicked. I don't know if he has contacted anyones post and I don't know if I should wait until he comes home to confront him or just do it now. I'm just hurt because my dad cheated on my mom and I'm not going to let him get away with it. Especially now that we have two small children
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You can confront him, but without any evidence it'll be very easy for him to deny that something is going on and you'll have to just take his word for it or go with your gut feeling.
I know this is very nerve wracking for you but don't panic, if worst comes to worst just bring it up over the phone. do you know what side of Vegas he's staying on? Its not bad everywhere here.. the strip and downtown is bad but a lot of other places are un sexual
Him:no
me: like the search history stuff I came across?
Him: what stuff?
me: the craigslists three some s***
him:...oh
Then he goes on to say "well I was looking at them for us when we go down there in a few months
I'm not buying it of course because why is he looking at that s*** anyways. He goes "well for the pictures on there I guess"
Like WTF?! Then he wants to say "I don't see a problem with it"
This one time, my husband was acting really weird and we had been a little distant so i had a feeling something was up. The thought of him cheating on me pissed me off so much, i just wanted to rip his penis out lol. But i waited, and i made him get a joined bank account with me, and i made him change his direct deposit to our new account. I read all his emails, and i went through his phone. I hacked into his Facebook and everything. Finally, i ended up finding out he had been talking to his ex girlfriend. Although they never got to anything, i gave him the choice to calm his shit down or to go with her. He chose me.
We had a long talk and he had to gain my trust back. Now, i have access to all of his things and he has access to all of my things.
My point is that you need to know what is really going on before you tell him anything. If you think about it, what's the point of confronting him about cheating if you don't have anything that really tells you whether he is cheating or not other than his word? And you obviously feel like there is more to all of this than what he is telling you, so why not try to get all the facts so that he cant deny it.
I hope you find the answers you are looking for, but honestly, there is doubt in you now so look through everything possible and get your answers like that rather than through him because as long as he can, he will lie
Op: i feel like he's lying.. but then again you were the one who was talking to him so you know the way he put it. Either way why would he want to see the pictures when he has you??? .. something's up.
Awwwww HELLA NO! You better pick up the phone immediately and check him BEFORE you end up with some 5th world STD that's incurable. Girl call him and pee on his parade!
@YNVTish @mommylovessparkle I just couldn't believe he tried to turn the tables to make it seem like he was doing us a favor and then has the balls to tell me that he wasn't doing anything wrong. I'm incrediably hurt right now by this. Even if he was just looking at these posts. To me thats just as bad and it looks really bad because he's looking in a place that where he's going to be unsupervised for 2 whole weeks while I'm stuck here not knowing what he's doing. I told him he knows we're already having multiple issues with our marriage. We have an appointment coming up for marriage counseling because I want to work through those other issues. Then he goes and does something like this?. DIvorce was hard on us kids and I don't want my kids to have to deal with the same thing.
@cant_wait93 I would if they would be able to take them.