smoking weed....is

CANT_WAIT93

Smoking weed is irresponsible. No matter what wether you have a baby next to you or no. I think that once you have baby your mind well be away from that.
I have a fb friend that posted this
"Im not a bad mother! Just cause I smoke weed I never smoked it in front of my daughter. I cant believe I lost all my family I. Less them a year. My husband is gone n now cps toke my baby. Thst just shows you that u can't trust nobody. Not even your own mother."
In my opinion this is just wrong. Idc if you are in another freaking country. If u have a daughter n you are going back to her later on you should not smoke!.
If you weren't ready to leave that life style you shouldn't have gotten pregnant.
But whatever. This is why I prefer to stay in my bubble and have older friends cause even if they are my age n they have babies they are stupid. Just plain retarded dum n stupid.

Idk I just dnt agree with this. I really dnt.
Weed is not good.

coltensmamma

Amen sister.....(coming from a child who had to grow up with a pot smoking father..now as an adult he has a license to grow because he is "sick"... yah okay....i wont allow my kids near him...) jmo too tho lol

jules

I agree. And it's stupid she's so shocked I don't care weather you think it's doing anything to you as on affecting you're thinking or even I you're opinion not harmful to you or people around you. Bottom line it's not legal to have and use therefore just like any other law you break it they hold you responsible for it. And maybe rather then her whining about it she should be getting herself together if she ever wants to see her child again. Like I said before irresponsible parents make me so made and here I am trying to have child and af shows up day early so I have to keep trying. And there's People like her that get a miracle and don't deserve it. I'm glad you're standing up and have better People to call friends and your much better then I because I would be giving her few of my words by now.

perly

I personally disagree with any kind of smoking. Some people say they use it to control anxiety problems and stuff like that and i respect that. I guess my view on smoking is different because i've never smoked, and i was never curious about weed so I've never tried it.
But hey, everyone does what they think its best and that's what your friend thought was best for her.

CANT_WAIT93

Yea. But my whole thing was n kind still is. Is that she puts it and expects for ppl to tell her that what she did was right. That she had no fault. That cps n her mom are worng for doing what they did.
Im like u . I dnt trip cause I have a lot of homegirls that do but iy gets to me whe. They use it knowing there is a baby in the house... what if the baby turned around on its belly n cover his or hers nose. What if she falls off the bed cause u weren't checking up on her. Idk I feel that one needs to have there full 5 senses intacked when it comes to caring for a baby. @perly
@jules
@coltensmamma
I was latterly having a stupid fb argument with these dum brods. That really think that weed needs to be use as a stress reliever.
I have a shyt load of stress! I take care of to babies. And husband a house. I am a 24 hour breastfeeding mother. I feel sometimes like I can't do it. But I take a deep breath and lok at my wonderful famil and keep on going. I work out I clean I play I CRY I Pray. I do a lot of things. And not once have my lips touch drugs to abuses them. I dnt drink. I dnt smoke. My husband smoked before and I told him if u want us to work that has to go. N it was as simple as that. Idk its like I told that one other bitch. Its really for weakmimded ppl. And that is my view.

Alwayzbeenurz2008

Agreed

perly

Of course she expects it, she did what she thought was right. Its like anything, when you do something you feel is right, you assume that someone out there will agree with you.
For the record, i also think like you do... what she did was wrong. She brought everything that is happening upon herself. Because honestly, when anyone uses an illegal drug whether its with good or bad intentions, they run the risk of getting caught. If they have a child, they run the risk of having their kid taken away... that's how it works.
Im not saying that people that smoke are unfit parents, because that's not always the case...but common sense, if you have kids at home, don't have illegal substances in your home.

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MommyLovesSparkle

Agreed. I don't know too much about weed but i know that I wouldn't EVER smoke it, its not worth the risk of my daughter. The only thing I'd smoke once in a while is hookah at a hookah lounge or if I'd buy one I'd only do it in my back yard. We have a strict rule at home. No smoking (cigs/hookah) in the house or around the baby. I don't smoke though only if I'm super pissed off.

captivated

I personally do not have an issue with marijuana. It has many, MANY benefits to the human body. However, with any mind altering substance (like alcohol) it should be used at the correct time if there are children to care for. I do not believe it makes one a bad mother in any way, so long as it does not interfere with their parenting. Your friendssounds like there were many more issues for her child to have been taken. If cps took them solely because she smoked weed, I disagree with their decision. She however, doesn't sound like the smartest crayon in the box.

sands3

I don't have a problem with it either. I personally do not smoke it, but my sister does on occasion. It doesn't interfere with her parenting. I think your friend has more going on to have get child taken away.

erkiehadagirl

i agree with te ladies above...in my own very opinion and in certain situations and cases i dont think it can interfere with a mothers parenting...maybe she was doing other stuff...to me its like saying a mom at the end of the night having a glass of wine is a bad mother ands thats just my opinion you know her better then us so you probaly know how she really is as a mother but i wouldnt judge others who might do it responsibly

vlynn15

Agree with the above ladies. There has to be more to it then her just smoking, maybe she's someone that abuses it and actually was neglecting her child to smoke. But you can smoke and be responsible at the same time and there are many people who are. If you've never done it you have no idea how it can effect someone and it does differently for different people. Whether you want it in your family or not is obviously your choice but you really can't judge people who do because of one friend you have that abuses it.

Mackenzies_mama2010

I agree once you decide to become a parent you should be putting that shit behind i smoked weed alot when i was younger but stopped as soon as i got pregnant its illegal and if you have kids should not be doing it

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Agreed on occasion it is fine. Thats like saying. omeone is a bad parent bc they went out and got drunk on new years. As long as the kids are in a safe places parents are entitled to a little adult time. Just bc you have a child does not mean life has to end. Btw I do not smoke but I don't mind a shot or 10 of mr. Walker a couple times a year. Speeding is illegal, so is j walking, I drove truck for many years and often thought about becoming highway patrol just to give cars tickets bc they drive stupidly. An occasional joint doesn't compare to what most do in their car everyday.

In this situation there was more than she is saying

stephforever89

Lol I've thought of the same thing. I can catch bad driver in heartbeat. @char

LolasBabyNum1

I smoke occasionally. I agree with the women above. Im sure there were more reasons why her child was taken

captivated

Just because something is illegal does not mean it is "bad" or should not be done. Blindly following the laws the government sets out for one is dangerous. Take a look at why marijuana/hemp became illegal and why it remains illegal. It is a money scheme, pure and simple. Definitely is not a reason to remove a child and is often not done.

starrxoxo9

I agree w/ @captivated and everyone else. There's gotta be more to the story than her just smoking weed. Weed is not even close to being as harmful as the narcotics pharmaceutical companies churn out everyday. Yet everyone seems to be ok with taking those because a Dr says its ok!! Lololol

CANT_WAIT93

Well idk if she is not sayIng the whole story cause thats all she posted on fb.
I got into a reall long argument with some other girl that was on the post. And my mind stays the same.
If you have a child in your care you shouldn't do anything. I dnt drink I dnt smoke I dnt do pills. I dnt do anything even more less if I have ny babies in my care which is 24/7
Its like I told her. For me in my eyes and my opinion is for weak minded ppl. That can't control there stress. If want to do something good for your body take vitamins. If you are stress take a bath or exercise or even masturbate. (I know but true!) Idk the world is filled with sooo many stupid ppl that hurt their children. We don't need to add drugs to the mix.

BigBelly

I think it's fine to smoke weed... As long as your los aren't around it or exposed to it. It's just like drinking alcohol. And as long as your babies are #1 and weed don't interferewwith your parenting than who cares! Jmo

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^^^^ agreed who cares as long as the kids are cared for who gives a crap.
@bigbelly

natashalynn

I also see weed like alcohol. Either can be used responsibly or abused. I wouldn't do either in front of my kid, nor alone with them even if their sleeping.

captivated

Agreed with @char and @bigbelly. Very judgmental and simply not a black and white issue

CANT_WAIT93

Idk I just dnt see it right

captivated

It is just a moral issue. I definitely see your POV \m/

captivated

where the heck did that smiley come from??

CANT_WAIT93

Yea.
Lmao!
Idk cause I think the way I see is that how a 17 year old can think more mature then many 20 year olds out there u know