drs confirmed pregnancy

NylasMommyNylasMommy
edited February 2013 in Pregnant
I was in the ER today for about 4 hrs due to abdominal pain & cramps. They took a urine test & i am pregnant :) i was hoping they would give me an Ultrasound bc i wanted to see my lil bean & heartbeat but they wouldnt saying its to early to see anything. I Saw nyla at 6 weeks n Saw her heartbeat. They told me to just see my ob. I cant pick an ob out here bc my tricare insurance is only covered in the west region n they said if i transfer it out here i cant transfer it back til a yr later. So now i have to wait til next month to go back to cali to pick an ob :( i just hope Baby is ok. The stupid doc today in the ER just made me breathe in & out & pressed on my stomach n asked if i was spotting. 4 hrs in the ER for a 5 minute visit. Im so pissed.

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  • julesjules
    Yeay! Congrats but I'm sorry you have to wait it will go by faster then you think.
  • NylasMommyNylasMommy
    @jules thanks girl :) i jus pm u back
  • ExcitedForOctoberExcitedForOctober
    Oh no :( I'm sorry girl, I know all the cramps and aches are scary. Do u think its just stretching pains? Did u have any with Nyla? I had slight cramping both pregnancies. Just try to relax, sit back with your feet up. That is really dumb that they wouldn't just do a quick ultrasound just for reassurance. Sorry you're going though this worry, prayers sent your way!
  • i_believei_believe
    @nylasMommy sorry to hear that I have been having those little cramps to but my doctor says they are normal but I'm still taking it easy
  • captivatedcaptivated
    Did they tell you what your beta levels are? If they were under 2000 they usually won't do an ultrasound without vaginal bleeding because it often won't pick up. Er is usually the worst place to get answers so early because they can't really see or find anything. Without bleeding, the doc just didn't see reason to. Sucks for sure! Cramps are very normal! I remember mine were so intense with my two kiddos that I was sure Id see blood every time I went to the bathroom!
  • lilbit01_209lilbit01_209
    Call Tricare for either a temp move or for an emergency ob appointment. Especially after visiting the ER. We have had to change to temp multiple times for emergencies and such and never had an issues with it.
  • NylasMommyNylasMommy
    @excitedforoctober they said it was completely normal to have those pains especially bc im pregnant. Sometimes it hurts so bad i have to lay down & it doesnt help when Nylas crawling all over me lol Or wanting to b picked up all the time & she loves to rest her head on my belly lately. U think she knows im pregnant?? Ive been teaching her how to say Baby n touch my belly & she yells out Baby haha its so cute & thank u girl for the prayers :) hows everything with u & Baby & lil Zori??

    @i_believe @excitedforoctober aww, i never had these cramps before. but i did start having BH at around 16 Or 18 weeks.. @i_believe im sorry ur going thru these cramps again with this pregnancy. Doc said they should go away soon tho. Take it easy hun :)

    @captivated yes,
    i think they did say it was lower than 2000 & they did ask if i was spotting n i said no so after that they didnt take it to serious :( which does suck. Thanks for the info. Im sorry u had really bad cramps with ur kids. I would freak out if i Saw blood.

    @lilbit01_209 im too scared to try & switch it after the front desk lady told me i wouldnt b able to transfer it back til after a yr bc i will need the insurance back home for me & nyla n all my ob visits. Plus im giving birth in Cali. I would b so screwed with no insurance but im happy it worked out for u :)
  • lilbit01_209lilbit01_209
    On the back of your medical card there should be a number for tricare west. Call them. They are the only ones that can make a determination not someone 'local'. People at the tricare desks seem to think they know everything. It is the sole determination of your area. Explain to the that you need an emergency check with an ob following a er visit and you should be fine. We were stationed at Bragg (NC) visiting Cali and San Antonio and had to call for approval 3 different times (hubby and kiddo had stomach flus and I had severe ear infection) Now in San Antonio we just call when we need help in Cali.
  • ExcitedForOctoberExcitedForOctober
    Thats so cute!!! I was putting stretch mark lotion on my belly this morning and Zori just kept staring at my belly and laughing and trying to rub the lotion too lol...I am doing great now that the morning sickness is in the past :0& ...the exhaustion is passing too. Zori is great too, he is such a little talker and such a big sweetheart but what worries me is that he is extremely jealous of me holding babies or when Jose hugs or kisses me, he HATES it and start whining until Jose moves away from me or until I put the baby down. I hope it is not too bad when his baby brother comes :-S ...I do think they know we are pregnant, they say they can sense it :)
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    Omg!!### yayyyy!! Im sure baby is ok hun i spotted too with joseph im so happy for you love <3
  • NylasMommyNylasMommy
    @lilbit01_201 i dont have a medical Card :( i just show my military id. is that the samething?? My husbands niece is at fort bragg. Her hubbys in the marines for like 9 yrs already. Shes been stationed there for a while. Do u like it there??

    @excitedforoctober awww, to him wanting to help lotion up ur belly :) its pretty cute how fast they catch up to things we do. Nyla always gets jealous when my hubby hugs me & says ”my mommie” lol she screams haha. im glad Zori & ur pregnancy is going great. Ur going to b in ur half way mark soon, how exciting :) can u feel Baby kick yet?? im so glad ur over the sickness stage bc ughh that totally sucks.

    @salasmommy hey mama :) how r u? Barely see u on ig now. I announced i was preggo on there like two days ago. U missed the pic?? LoL but thanks love. I really want to see my lil bean :) as long as there is a heartbeat im gona b ok & relax but until then im still a bit worried.
  • newmomma13newmomma13
    Well thanks for texting back... I know ur ok now lol
  • NylasMommyNylasMommy
    @newmomma13 lol, u knew once word was out about my pregnancy with the fam my phone was going to stay busy. Lol, u shoulda Text me haha ;)
  • ExcitedForOctoberExcitedForOctober
    Even though I am scared for when baby comes of how jealous Zori will be I still think its so cute that he gets jealous lol...yes I can feel him but not alot :( mostly at night when I'm laying in bed, can't wait for the real movements! :)
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