I really want to choke him
My husband who is generally a pretty awesome guy has taken a turn for the worst....the past few days he has been in this piss poor mood that agrivates me to no end. First he works in the oilfield and I stay at home with our 18mth old and 30 wks with our 2nd....regardless my "job" is no where near difficult like his :-@ ive gotten over hearing that so many times that I careless to bring it up...but lately he has turned lazy such as instead of putting something in the trash he will put it next to it, clothes everywhere but the hamper, using several dishes for no reason etc....im left here to clean up after him plus my 18mth old which I can handle but being bigger its getting harder and im tired all the time. I try to keep everything nice but itputs me in physical pain to the point I dont sleep good bc Im aready hurting...he wants sex like 3 times a day and im not going to do it...if I cant get a little bit of help with cleaning or taking care of my daughter besides playing and loving on her then he can just stand in line and wait till im feeling halfway decent to perform but bc he just thinks im being dumb he walks around the house wirh an attitude, huffing and puffing, making comments like I guess ill jist do this or that since theres nothing better to do etc and if I hear that one more time im liable to choke him....why cant men feel our pregnancy/houswife/mother struggle even if for one day
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My place is already small, so one day of not cleaning usually does the job.
Im 34wks and Im still sweeping and moping and scrubbing toilets and bathtubs... the least he can do is come home and put things where they belong. And if he doesn't, hell breaks loose lol.
I probably sound like a brat, which Im not cause i do take into consideration that he works hard but house chores are really hard on me and Im still doing them so he needs to do what i ask when it comes down to putting stuff where it belongs which is really not asking him to do anything.